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Nude punishment of boys in India
« on: Jan 15th, 2009, 8:03pm »
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I came across this on another board. No idea if it is true, but it sounds like it could be, though I have been to India many times and seldom heard of it. Does anyone know?
 
by a poster named Sajita:
 
"David, you are so right. I’m a 16 year old Indian girl (not the native American kind). The adults in my family are immigrants to the U.S. from India. It is very common for Indian parents to punish their boys by making them stand in a state of total nudity holding their ears with their hands or holding their hands clasped behind their heads. My family still continue that tradition in this country. I’ve never been punished in that way, because it’s not considered appropriate in most parts of India to subject girls to nudity as punishment (or for any other reason, for that matter), but I’ve often witnessed my brothers and male cousins being made to stand in a state of total nudity holding their ears with their hands for a half-hour to an hour, depending on the gravity of the boys’ offense. However, whenever my female cousins and I approach the boys while they’re being punished, they swiftly shift their hands from ears to genitals! But the parents usually quickly make the boys place their hands back on their ears, even as we girls gawk at them. Female humiliation during the boys’ punishments is definitely very intentional in Indian culture, and it’s sure not easy for the boys, but nonetheless, it is widely considered to be very effective in improving boys’ behaviour in our culture. After a few moments, the parents will make us girls leave the boys alone, but we girls usually bug the boys 3 or 4 times like that during a typical punishment period. It may sound like we girls are little teasing brats, but in our culture, it’s actually considered to be our family duty to do this, regardless of how much we enjoy seeing the boy nudity, which we certainly do! Meanwhile, the adults in our culture continually drill modesty into the girls’ heads."
 
then later she posts again:
 
"In response to David T and Woody:
 
I am surprised to learn that some parents in America used to spank boys until they reached age 12. I too would have guessed they would have stopped those “bare butt” spankings at about age 8. I’m sure many of those older boys were terribly embarrassed and I feel very badly for them. In Indian culture, even though the boys are usually very humiliated by the nude punishments, at least they get over it quickly because it’s so widely accepted as a form of boy punishment (and girl duty), and the boys know that they are not alone by any means, because ALL the boys around them must face the same nudity on a regular basis.
 
Female modesty is so sacred in our culture that even when a mother or guardian is changing the diaper of even the youngest of baby girls, he/she keeps a small sheet over the baby girl to shield her genital region from male eyes. On the other hand, most of the time baby boys get their diapers changed right out in the open, almost as if they were the subject of a public exhibition. The sacredness of the female genitals in Indian culture is derived from the simple fact that females give birth, and so the female genital region is highly revered, and so is never to be casually displayed in front of males. Female genitals have almost God-like qualities in India. And conversely, males, according to Indian culture, simply have no reason to have that degree of modesty.
 
Boys in India are generally subjected to this nude punishment up through age 12 or 13. I’m sure this is very surprising to most Americans, but this is based on the general consensus that boys have very “boyish” anatomies up through age 12 or 13, despite the fact that a small minority of boys’ genitals are already quite well-developed by that age. Parents simply don’t make exceptions for these well-developed boys – they just go ahead and punish them nude too. As you can easily imagine, these “minority” cases are especially interesting and pleasurable to us girls! And it’s often especially humiliating for those boys too.
 
The girls’ participation duty in the boys’ humiliating punishments in Indian culture is tied to the fact that the Indian girls are naturally raised with many more domestic attitudes and skills than boys, and so the girls’ nurturing abilities/duties fit right into the raising of boys (and younger sisters too). In Indian culture, it is the girls’ duty to assist the parents in the rearing of brothers and sisters and often of cousins too, and as with many things in life, with duties often come certain privileges too. The girls’ privilege to view the boys nude is a very nice benefit of bearing more responsibility for helping to rear siblings than boys have. And so the boys can only WISH they could view the girls’ nude bodies the same way. I guess that’s life, in India in particular. But now I know that at times, some situations are similar in America, as so many have reported here on this forum.
 
Also, the reason why Indian boys receive more frequent punishments and harsher punishments than Indian girls is similar to the above logic. Indian girls are naturally more disciplined and compliant than boys and usually have a lot less “natural unharnessed energy” than boys too. Boys need the tough punishments to mold them into conforming men who will support their families, treat females with respect only, and generally be a contributing asset to Indian society, not a public menace.
 
Occasionally, even an Indian boy in the age range of 14 through 17 will be given this nude punishment – with pubic hair on display and everything! This doesn’t occur very often, but I have seen it once and heard of it a few more times. It is extraordinarily embarrassing and humiliating to the poor boys who undergo it, because teen boys want very much to be respected and treated as adults, but occasionally when a teen boy displays very “boyish” behavior, a parent will punish him AS A BOY, which of course means nude punishment, just like for a younger boy. It sends the boy the painfully clear message that “If you insist on acting like a little boy, you will be TREATED like one!”
 
The one time I saw a 16 year old boy undergo a nude punishment, I was at my girlfriend’s house, and her brother had pushed and pushed her mom until her mom finally forced the nude punishment on him. Usually when an older boy is being punished nude like this, anyone outside the family is sent out of the house. But once in a while, as was the case when I witnessed it, the mom will get so aggravated with the teen boy that she won’t even bother to consider if any outsiders are in the house, she’ll strip her son right then and there, and make him stand with hands on ears or behind his head. I could have taken advantage of that situation much more than I did, because his mom didn’t care at all if I saw him nude. But because I liked the boy and didn’t want to face the embarrassment and awkwardness of seeing him later on, I didn’t gawk at him, but instead I went outside the house on my own. However, I got to confess I did sneak a pretty good peak at his genitals right before I slipped outside, because my natural curiosity got the best of me and I guess I just couldn’t let that very rare opportunity slip by without seeing something! He had quite a mature genital package with a good set of pubic hair. That was definitely a thrilling moment for me!"
 
This was from this website:
 
http://www.voy.com/217785/138.html
 
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #1 on: Jan 16th, 2009, 1:19am »
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Fascinating story.  Wonderful find.  Whoever wrote it writes very well.  It is an excellent explanation of her view of the phenomenon.  I suspect that the low regard for male nudity in Indian culture has something to do with the fact that males are less sexually vulnerable also.
 
There is a religious sect in India that takes poverty so strict that the males don't wear clothes.  The sect has women but they wear white garments.  Obviously there is something to the fact that Indian culture holds male modesty unimportant.
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #2 on: Jan 16th, 2009, 6:06am »
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I hail from the subcontinent as well, and have a perspective of this kind of activity.  It is usual for a boy to be punished with nudity, but really only until the age of about 5 year.
 
However, the attitude to Male modesty is different.  Men would often get changed in a room with family members (male and female) present, however any female who needed to get changed, the men and boys would be sent out of the room.
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« Reply #3 on: Jan 16th, 2009, 5:11pm »
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The attitudes about male nudity and male modesty are identical to the Amish. Male nudity is no big deal and males dont need modesty. Modesty is for females. Also, the attitude about female modesty being so important is the same
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« Reply #4 on: Jan 16th, 2009, 11:09pm »
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It occurs to me that there is a correlation in European culture for punishing a boy by making him stand naked holding his ears.  I remember when I was particularly bad that my father would pull down my pants to spank me.  He was very deliberate about it making it almost a ritual.  The ritual was far worse than blows on my rump.  The point of pulling down the pants obviously is to emphasize the humiliation and worsen the punishment.  I never made a connection at the time if there was a gender difference but it is doubtful that he ever did this to my sister.  
 
I wonder in India if it is the mother or the father that inflicts the nude punishment on the boys.   The article seems to suggest it was the mother.  If so, I find that odd.  There is the possibility of an alternate motive.
 
Having thought about this for a day I would also opine a disapproval of the practice.  Discipline like this could result in a fetish later in life.  The punishment has sexual overtones, not a good idea.
 
With regard to the obvious double standard I make no complaint.  Females are more sexually vulnerable and it is almost unheard of them to commit acts of sexual predation.  In fact the only reason I can find for male modesty is in reciprocation of feminine modesty.  If males didn't wear suits at the beach, how would they be harmed and who would harm them?
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #5 on: Jan 17th, 2009, 1:23am »
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Sajita's next post:
 
"I’m afraid that I did in fact over-generalize when I used the term “Indian culture” in my posts. I should have said “the Indian culture that I’m familiar with” instead, to be more accurate. Yes, India is a very large and quite diverse country, so I’m not surprised in the least that some immigrants from India are not familiar with the nude boy punishment that I’m so familiar with. I have never visited India (though I really want to one day, to see where my parents lived), so all I have to go on are the beliefs and customs that my parents and other Indian relatives have raised me on. My parents have confirmed to me that it’s not very uncommon to see young boys skinny-dipping in public in some parts of India. By the way, my parents grew up near Paradip, Orissa (on the East Coast of India, relatively close to Calcutta). I believe Woody was correct in stating that I really meant this type of boy punishment is normal in ‘certain parts’ of India.
 
Randy requested some sites where one might research this type of nude punishment in India. I made quite a few searches on-line, but I couldn’t find a shred of material that covered this topic. It seems to be the same as when you try to find information on how common pants-down spankings were given in school, or how often boys were given physical exams in front of their sisters in the U.S. Doctors, teachers, schools, etc., just don’t document that kind of information, and so it seems to be impossible to research it on-line.
 
I also agree with the consensus of at least some people on this site (including Woody) who have pointed out that something controversial (like forcing boys to be nude) may not be normal, but could still be common. Like for example, I think everyone would agree that lung cancer is common (unfortunately!!) in the U.S. today, but you certainly can’t say that lung cancer is normal. Obviously it is normal to NOT have lung cancer.
 
Like Helen Turber, I too really wonder just how common this so-called “shaming” punishment is in the U.S. Helen, thank you for posting that report. It was good to hear that others here in the U.S. are at least familiar with that form of disciplining boys. If you were like me, then at times when you were watching your brothers (and male cousins in my case) getting punished nude (and sometimes getting their butts reddened), you were genuinely glad to be a girl! Helen, you mentioned that you usually found it fun and exciting. I’ve also heard my girlfriends use those same words in describing their experiences with it. One girlfriend said she also found it “very satisfying” to see badly behaving, and sometimes mean, boys punished like that.
 
Occasionally my brothers and male cousins were spanked before being made to stand nude, but in the vast majority of times, just the nude humiliation was enough to make them very contrite and thus improve their behavior, and so no spanking was given. For whatever reason, I have never seen a full erection on any of the boys I’ve seen punished. I can only guess they’re too ashamed and humiliated to get aroused. However, on a few occasions I have clearly noticed that a penis will increase substantially in size and assume a more “sticking out firmly” position than the normal “hanging limp” position (in other words, those boys were experiencing partial erections, for whatever reason). On those seldom times when that happened, that always made the viewing more enjoyable, for sure!"
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I was absolutely thrilled to stumble onto this website. My family was from a village in India where boys were frequently seen nude and bathed by girls. I have 3 sisters who were born in India and spent their childhood there. We moved to a small village in Malaysia where my father worked in a clinic for soldiers and their families. I was born here and had many cfnm experiences  with my sisters as I was the only boy and male grandchild in my family dominated by females.  
My mother and sisters brought their practices from India, which included my nude oil baths, boys being nude in the presence of females but girls having full privacy. My mother was very open and proud of my maleness, frequently talking in our dialect about my `cute little kuku' and `adorable boy pee pee' whenever I was nude and about to have my bath. I would often have erections which she called `kuku pointing up'  and my sisters would be delighted to see it.  
I would like to write in detail about my experiences and the sensations I felt being undressed and fondled in front of females. Some of these include my oil baths by my mother and sisters, my tight foreskin and how my sisters helped stretch it using oils, being babysat and bathed by my neighbour's daughters and my sisters' friends and my first cfnm ejaculation with a curious chinese girl when I was 16. Would anyone be interested?  
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #7 on: Jan 20th, 2009, 6:36am »
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Kuteppboy:
 
Some people here seem a bit uneasy about posts involving CFNM and children, but I personally am not if it's about what actually happened in family surroundings where it was part of a family's culture and lifestyle and was non-abusive (however you define that).
 
I was fascinated by the first post in this thread, as I had no feel for the Indian attitudes towards nudity and found the disciplinary practice quite surprising. I'm not sure of the wisdom of it, because it might create in a boy's mind an association between shame (being punished) and nudity, but it happened, it was a part of the culture and was accepted as such.  
 
So I personally say "Yes, do please write about your childhood CFNM experiences in the family and with others in the Indian culture, Malaysian setting." Start a new thread, though, so they don't get mixed in with this Indian-oriented one.
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« Reply #8 on: Jan 23rd, 2009, 11:09pm »
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Kuteppboy:
I found your submission fascinating.  The reason is the juxtaposition between cfnm and male supremacy.  I took it from your mother's happiness with your being a male that in Indian culture males are more valued.  Yet cfnm apparently is more pronounced in such a culture than in a unisex culture.  That is at least superficially inconsistent.  I think of cfnm as being female dominent - male submissive.  I suppose upon reflection that in such a culture women might regard themselves as caregivers and thus bathing a brother would be good training for daughters in caregiving.  Not only did they bathe you but they actually helped you stretch your foreskin.  Amazing!  Not only did your sisters bathe you but the neighbor girls and sister's friends did also.  Were you like the only boy in the neighborhood and thus the boy practice doll for the neighborhoold caregiving school for girls?
 
Would we like to hear about your first cfnm ejaculation with a curious Chinese girl at age 16?  Duh, yea!
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #9 on: Jan 24th, 2009, 3:04am »
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kuteppboy I would love to hear of your experiences growing up . I also had two older sisters that took care of me inculding giving me baths.
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« Reply #10 on: Feb 16th, 2009, 2:01pm »
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Well I am from India  
its true when i was young i always got punished with nudity usually by my parents which i hated.
but i loved it when my aunt use to do it  
with her it was fun even if it was a punishment  
she was the one who got me hooked onto CFNM  
if anyone is interested i would post up my CFM stories  Smiley
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« Reply #11 on: Feb 16th, 2009, 3:20pm »
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Yes, Raj ... Please do post away!
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #12 on: Feb 16th, 2009, 4:40pm »
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Agree with JerBear
 
Please post your experiences!
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« Reply #13 on: Feb 17th, 2009, 2:55am »
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Well let me give you a bit of an insight o my aunt first  
my aunt is actually 16 years younger than my mom
and only 7 years older than me.
So she was and is more of an older sister to me than my aunt.
I will tell you about a time when I was 14 (I have experiences when I was younger but it’s much better when i reached my teens). By the way we still have CFNM experiences even today.
It was when we went to a family holiday and I and she got to share a room together  
For some reason she decided that I was not a big boy and needed to be bathed
I complained to her that I was 14 and needed no help bathing but she wouldn’t have it besides she said it would be fun  what ever that meant
Well anyways once inside this huge hotel bathroom my aunt proceeded to turn on the tub and said she was going to give me a good scrubbing in the tub because little boys like me couldn’t clean ourselves once again I was 14.
So anyway she set up a bubble bath for me which was also sort of embarrassing and they she proceeded to take my clothes off herself. If it were to happen the first time I would be mortified but if has happened many- many times before so I was and am quite use to it  
She always made it look like a present when she took my clothes off and gave me a lecture on modesty of boys.  
After this I get into the tub and she went on to give me a scrubbing and the obvious reaction of me getting a hard on which was her favorite part. She would spend a lot of time on my penis telling me the importance of washing the little penises of little boys. For some reason I would also enjoy this part very much and both of us would giggle and laugh at this. After the bath she would also help me dry up and dress me up for which I had to give her a hug after I was dry and before I was dressed.  
Now I am 20 and my aunt is  27 but we still have the same relationship and when alone we still do CFNM she even jokes that when I get married she will teach my wife what to do . I’ll write more if anyone is interested ……..
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #14 on: Feb 17th, 2009, 1:12pm »
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yes please write more! very interesting Smiley
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Yes, definitely.  Write more.  What I would find interesting is what your aunt told you about the modesty of boys while she is giving you a bath and washing your penis.
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I have a female friend from Cambodia who comes from a large family.  She told me that the girls always bathed their younger brothers until the age of puberty. Boys never saw their sisters nude but all the girls, even young ones, saw their brothers naked.  No one thought much of this as it was the custom.  She said they would tease their brothers when they developed erections and in some cases bathing evolved into sex education classes that ended with the brother leaving the bathroom to masturbate in private.
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« Reply #17 on: Feb 21st, 2009, 1:57pm »
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In my case my aunt did't do it as a punishment but more as fun  
other than that i also had some CFNM experiences with my 2 cousins one was same age as me and one was one year youngers . They always tried to make it look as an accident  but we all knew that the situations were very much designed  
if anyone is interested i'll write about that also  Smiley
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« Reply #18 on: Feb 24th, 2009, 12:06am »
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Why do you do that, taunt us like that?  Of course we are interested.  Why can't you just tell us?
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I look forward to more stories from Raj and also Kuteppboy's experience with his Chinese neighbor.
 
I recall a story written by a Malaysian man about his embarrassment when he and a group of his peers were circumcised around the age of ten in their village. All the boys were stripped naked at the public event which was well-attended by their female friends and relatives. Although the girls didn't see the actual cutting, he said the worst part of the ceremony being seen naked before and then having to show everyone the results of the operation.
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #20 on: Apr 27th, 2009, 3:36pm »
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A related piece I came across just now:
 
http://indianmen.wordpress.com/2006/12/26/indian-teachers/
 
The female teacher in question seems to be downright depraved, if the facts are indeed accurate. But to me it's always (given the many accounts I've seen - much like the one the OP refers to in this thread) seemed as though it's fairly common to use forced nudity or stripping as a means of dicipline in the far East. I would like to say, though, that it's hard to say from singular accounts and reports how widespread such phenomena really are: I'm sure the real picture is - as always - pretty complex. Interesting to note the writer's referance to this MTV show: It seems quite extreme for something which was - seemingly - aired on TV.
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« Reply #21 on: May 4th, 2009, 10:26pm »
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I like this idea.  Although, I would only permit males to wear clothes when  
 
1. They were not in the presence of females.  
2.  They were no longer attractive to look at naked.  
 
I would teach them modesty until the age of consent, then I would take away the males consent.
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« Reply #22 on: May 6th, 2009, 3:38am »
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Yes nude punishments for boys in school was a common sight .It ranged from not doing homework to just plain indecipline from the boys. It was thought that girls got away with more in my school that guys , the same offence that would only gain a girl a warning meant punishment for a boy .
      Girls never took clothes off cause that was not part of the punishment for girls . For girls it was hits with the scale for boys we had the added bit of getting naked first. Maybe cause all the teachers were female or maybe it was the school policy to not to strip the girls .
      The girls would always have a laugh at our expence even though they some some form the scale themselves. In those days i had many friends form school who were girls and none of them were shy to point out that they had seen me naked  
       I guess i got my first thrills of CFNM there not when i was naked but when my friends told me that they had seen me naked enjoyed it and that i had not seen them naked.
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« Reply #23 on: May 6th, 2009, 2:31pm »
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Thanks for sharing your experience, Raj.  How old were you when you were punished naked at school?  Was the punishment in the classroom in front of everybody?
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« Reply #24 on: May 6th, 2009, 5:59pm »
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Raj, what was the scale you referred to? And who hit you and where?
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #25 on: May 7th, 2009, 6:07am »
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oh the scale is the ruler or the cane whatever you prefer to call it over here we call it a scale  
 yes the punishment was always in front of the class where everyone could see
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« Reply #26 on: Jun 3rd, 2009, 1:37pm »
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[color=Maroon][/color] a newby hope I have got the method of posting right
 
thank you raj for such interesting contributions
I think you must be gratefull to the lady teachers not only for introducing you to cfnm but also forteaching english so well
in what part of india is your school  
do you still meet students from school
it must be fun if you do
thanks agian and hope to hear from you again
 
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« Reply #27 on: Jun 29th, 2009, 1:36am »
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thanks live2learn
 
yes i do meet some school friends now and then
one of my old school friends is my neighbour  
she is married now but every now and then she makes hintsd of our past CFNM experiences she has even told me that when her husband is not around we can do it again provided i am interested .
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« Reply #28 on: Jun 30th, 2009, 12:40am »
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I grew up in Kentucky and my mother raised my sister and I alone as dad left when I was 5. I remember when I was 9 being punished for fighting and pushing over a younger cousin at a family reunion. My mom stripped me and made me endure the hell of erecting infront of all my female cousins and my sister. I was forced to allow them all to watch as I grew right before their eyes. I was so embarrased I teared up as the girls openly teased me about my "wiener" growing! The worst part was the girls were allowed to watch it happen! My sister took advantage of the situation often punishing me the same way when we were alone or with friends in the neighborhood. I know this is the reason for my interest in CFNM. I wonder if there are other sites that deal with erections and/or the enduring of the shame of erecting infront of females? Please reply if any are known.  
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« Reply #29 on: Jun 30th, 2009, 8:24pm »
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I also read your other post of today, and must say that I am surprised at your mom & sister! I never heard of this happening here on Long Island, when I was growing up. Also, by age 12, I would think you would have been able to resist your sister forcing you to strip, especially in front of girls! Maybe you secretly enjoyed CFNM, even then, and permitted your sister to make you strip.
Of course, this would be considered abuse, by today's standards.
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Singledonald,  
(Sorry, I'm new to the site and answered this on the wrong story line) reprinted
About mom, she drank allot and yes was an alcoholic. That made Susan and I children of an alcoholic! From the meetings I attended children of alcoholics tend to be enablers ie.we allow things to go on even though we know better. Susan was a childhood alcoholic and I figure that was what made her so mean. When I tried to tell on Susan she just got one of the girls who wanted to see me nude and had her lie. Susan was older and had her friend to colaborate so I got the whoopin'! I soon realized Iit was better to just let things go.  
Yes, you are right about learning to like the CFNM! At first I about died everytime I was exposed and made to let them see me erect! Susan loved seeing me shame in front of 3 or 4 girls. Whwn I was 9 & 10 I would hate the fact that the girls got to know about boys and they got to watch me get erect! I felt like I was letting boys down teaching the girls all about our body. At 11 I was starting to enjoy the thrill and found I really enjoyed it.  
 
 
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What do people here think about the idea in general of punishing boys and girls differently?  OK or not?  Follow "don't hit girls"?
 
There is a big downside to "nude punishment of boys":  I assume you wouldn't want them to associate nudity with negative experiences!
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Hi
I agree with Blizzard1 Sajitha's post does sound suspicious.
It is a shame that the original thread is not avialable any more,
as there were two otherIndian ladies who posted similar stories and they sounded more believable. There was also a post by a lady called Helen who wrote of seeing similar punishment of her brothers and boy cousins in Virginia and Kenkucky. She said it was common and her girl freinds in school used to talk about it.
It is interesting that 2 very different cultures on opposite sides of the world inveted teh same metheod of keeping boys in line.
I wonder if there were any other places this happeded
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on Jan 15th, 2009, 8:03pm, Allan_C. wrote:
I came across this on another board. No idea if it is true, but it sounds like it could be, though I have been to India many times and have never heard of it. Does anyone know?
 
by a poster named Sajita:
 
"David, you are so right. I’m a 16 year old Indian girl (not the native American kind). The adults in my family are immigrants to the U.S. from India. It is very common for Indian parents to punish their boys by making them stand in a state of total nudity holding their ears with their hands or holding their hands clasped behind their heads. My family still continue that tradition in this country. I’ve never been punished in that way, because it’s not considered appropriate in most parts of India to subject girls to nudity as punishment (or for any other reason, for that matter), but I’ve often witnessed my brothers and male cousins being made to stand in a state of total nudity holding their ears with their hands for a half-hour to an hour, depending on the gravity of the boys’ offense. However, whenever my female cousins and I approach the boys while they’re being punished, they swiftly shift their hands from ears to genitals! But the parents usually quickly make the boys place their hands back on their ears, even as we girls gawk at them. Female humiliation during the boys’ punishments is definitely very intentional in Indian culture, and it’s sure not easy for the boys, but nonetheless, it is widely considered to be very effective in improving boys’ behaviour in our culture. After a few moments, the parents will make us girls leave the boys alone, but we girls usually bug the boys 3 or 4 times like that during a typical punishment period. It may sound like we girls are little teasing brats, but in our culture, it’s actually considered to be our family duty to do this, regardless of how much we enjoy seeing the boy nudity, which we certainly do! Meanwhile, the adults in our culture continually drill modesty into the girls’ heads."
 
then later she posts again:
 
"In response to David T and Woody:
 
I am surprised to learn that some parents in America used to spank boys until they reached age 12. I too would have guessed they would have stopped those “bare butt” spankings at about age 8. I’m sure many of those older boys were terribly embarrassed and I feel very badly for them. In Indian culture, even though the boys are usually very humiliated by the nude punishments, at least they get over it quickly because it’s so widely accepted as a form of boy punishment (and girl duty), and the boys know that they are not alone by any means, because ALL the boys around them must face the same nudity on a regular basis.
 
Female modesty is so sacred in our culture that even when a mother or guardian is changing the diaper of even the youngest of baby girls, he/she keeps a small sheet over the baby girl to shield her genital region from male eyes. On the other hand, most of the time baby boys get their diapers changed right out in the open, almost as if they were the subject of a public exhibition. The sacredness of the female genitals in Indian culture is derived from the simple fact that females give birth, and so the female genital region is highly revered, and so is never to be casually displayed in front of males. Female genitals have almost God-like qualities in India. And conversely, males, according to Indian culture, simply have no reason to have that degree of modesty.
 
Boys in India are generally subjected to this nude punishment up through age 12 or 13. I’m sure this is very surprising to most Americans, but this is based on the general consensus that boys have very “boyish” anatomies up through age 12 or 13, despite the fact that a small minority of boys’ genitals are already quite well-developed by that age. Parents simply don’t make exceptions for these well-developed boys – they just go ahead and punish them nude too. As you can easily imagine, these “minority” cases are especially interesting and pleasurable to us girls! And it’s often especially humiliating for those boys too.
 
The girls’ participation duty in the boys’ humiliating punishments in Indian culture is tied to the fact that the Indian girls are naturally raised with many more domestic attitudes and skills than boys, and so the girls’ nurturing abilities/duties fit right into the raising of boys (and younger sisters too). In Indian culture, it is the girls’ duty to assist the parents in the rearing of brothers and sisters and often of cousins too, and as with many things in life, with duties often come certain privileges too. The girls’ privilege to view the boys nude is a very nice benefit of bearing more responsibility for helping to rear siblings than boys have. And so the boys can only WISH they could view the girls’ nude bodies the same way. I guess that’s life, in India in particular. But now I know that at times, some situations are similar in America, as so many have reported here on this forum.
 
Also, the reason why Indian boys receive more frequent punishments and harsher punishments than Indian girls is similar to the above logic. Indian girls are naturally more disciplined and compliant than boys and usually have a lot less “natural unharnessed energy” than boys too. Boys need the tough punishments to mold them into conforming men who will support their families, treat females with respect only, and generally be a contributing asset to Indian society, not a public menace.
 
Occasionally, even an Indian boy in the age range of 14 through 17 will be given this nude punishment – with pubic hair on display and everything! This doesn’t occur very often, but I have seen it once and heard of it a few more times. It is extraordinarily embarrassing and humiliating to the poor boys who undergo it, because teen boys want very much to be respected and treated as adults, but occasionally when a teen boy displays very “boyish” behavior, a parent will punish him AS A BOY, which of course means nude punishment, just like for a younger boy. It sends the boy the painfully clear message that “If you insist on acting like a little boy, you will be TREATED like one!”
 
The one time I saw a 16 year old boy undergo a nude punishment, I was at my girlfriend’s house, and her brother had pushed and pushed her mom until her mom finally forced the nude punishment on him. Usually when an older boy is being punished nude like this, anyone outside the family is sent out of the house. But once in a while, as was the case when I witnessed it, the mom will get so aggravated with the teen boy that she won’t even bother to consider if any outsiders are in the house, she’ll strip her son right then and there, and make him stand with hands on ears or behind his head. I could have taken advantage of that situation much more than I did, because his mom didn’t care at all if I saw him nude. But because I liked the boy and didn’t want to face the embarrassment and awkwardness of seeing him later on, I didn’t gawk at him, but instead I went outside the house on my own. However, I got to confess I did sneak a pretty good peak at his genitals right before I slipped outside, because my natural curiosity got the best of me and I guess I just couldn’t let that very rare opportunity slip by without seeing something! He had quite a mature genital package with a good set of pubic hair. That was definitely a thrilling moment for me!"
 
This was from this website:
 
http://www.voy.com/217785/138.html
 

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« Reply #35 on: Aug 15th, 2010, 7:48am »
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Nudity for boys of the age mentioned here, up to 12-13, is not a big deal or unusual in India. In many parts of that country, as also in most of S.E.Asia, one can see groups of boys of that age skinnydipping in rivers and ponds in front of everyone, sometimes with clothed girls and women present. There are several photos of this taken by tourists who happen to be passing by. Many of these photos were taken by female European tourists who were watching the boys skinnydipping. I cannot post the  links here because they obviously show underage nudity even though it is entirely innocent.
About the nude punishment of boys in India I came across a site recently which is campaigning for these humiliating punishments of boys in that country to stop. I don't know if I saved the page though. So it does seem to be real.
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There are several photos of this taken by tourists who happen to be passing by. Many of these photos were taken by female European tourists who were watching the boys skinnydipping.

 
How do you know that the photos were taken by female European tourists?
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I was on a bus in Jakarta, Indonesia some years ago with a group of other Americans. The bus was in heavy traffic in the old city moving slowly past a canal.  Some Indonesian boys aged about 8-12 were swimming nude in the canal and having a great time.  The banks of canal were about even with the window of the bus which was only about fifteen feet from the boys as we passed. In front of my on the bus was a mother and her thirteen year old daughter who got an up-close look at naked boys almost her own age.  One of the boys saw the girl looking at him.  He responded by waving his little penis at the girl and laughing.  I heard the girl say, "Mommy, he's wiggling his pee pee at me."  The mother answered.  "Don't mind him dear, he is just being friendly".
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« Reply #38 on: Aug 15th, 2010, 2:33pm »
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I lived in Jakarta briefly during the late 1980s, replacing temporarily our country manager who had not worked out. As such, I "inherited" his household, consisting of three full time servants - a male driver, and two women, the cook and the housekeeper. The house itself was in an expat section of Jakarta, but the housekeeper lived in an adjoining small cottage with her daughter, aged about 14. The housekeeper was about 35, fairly worldly for a Muslim Javanese woman, and spoke good English. She saw me nude on many occasions as I was showering or just sitting around the house, and it had evolved that it was completely acceptable to both of us. On a couple of occasions her daughter was also in the house and saw me nude. One time in particular she stared, right at my cock. Later her mother told me that she stared because although she saw the local boys nude all the time,  mine was the first penis she had ever seen that was not circumcised, and she found it fascinating!
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When I lived in Jakarta I knew an American woman who was invited to attend a mass circumcision of Javanese boys.  Poor families cannot afford the expensive rite which is done when boys are around ten years old. A foundation (yayasan) organized the event for about five hundred boys and thousands of their relatives. My friend was invited by the ladies or ran the foundation.  Although most of the  boys were young, there were a few young adults who were ethnic Chinese who wanted to marry Muslim girls and  needed to convert to Islam and to be circumcised before they could get married.
 
My friend was taken into a room where one of the Chinese men was about to go under the knife. He was on a table covered by a sheet with a hole in it. His penis poked out the hole and he was introduced to my friend who spoke Bahasa Indonesia.  Both she and the young man were embarrassed by the exposure of his naked penis which rapidly erected to the delight of the Indonesian matrons who were also present.  The erection went away quickly when the attending physician gave him a series of shots of novacaine in the foreskin which brought moans of pain.  The ladies did not stick around to see the actual operation but it was clear to my friend that her Indonesian lady friends were excited by seeing the man's exposure and embarrassment.
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« Reply #40 on: Aug 28th, 2010, 1:17pm »
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I used to be very skeptical about this, but i have seen so many posts that sound true
for example;  
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At our school we had several Indian boys from affluent families in Kenya and Gold Coast (now Ghana). I played cricket with two of them on the first eleven. They said discipline at the school was mild compared to life at home.  For the slightest offense they were obliged to take off all their clothes and stand nude in front of their siblings and even female friends of their sisters for up to an hour with hands behind their backs. Also in front of staff which was mainly female.
 
 
from the cfnm in boarding schools thread on this forum. that I am a believer.
 
All I can say is that if boys are punished like this and the girls enjoy it then India must be the mother lode of cfnm
how come we hear so little about it
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« Reply #41 on: Aug 29th, 2010, 5:32am »
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All I can say is that if boys are punished like this and the girls enjoy it then India must be the mother lode of cfnm
how come we hear so little about it

 
That is a good, general question, much broader than just CFNM. I used to have several guys from India working for me when I was based in Singapore. I had hired them from various software companies in India and each man was talented, hard-working and very bright. One of them once asked me why it was that Americans paid so little attention to India (this was back in the 90s), and so much to China. I had to admit that for a few minutes I was flummoxed by the question (something I seldom am...) and have pondered it ever since. Even today it is still true -- just look at the news concentration we get about China and how little news is about India. Yet both are about the same size and now, at least, both have very important economies. And India is the world's largest democracy -- yet is all but ignored by the same Americans who go around preaching the virtues of democracy to other nations.
 
And I am no one to talk. My second wife was from Shanghai (I met her there) and although I have been to both countries many, many times and have an abiding interest in both of them, I must admit I have always been a bit more fascinated by China. I don't know if it is because of the historical associations of New England shipping & whaling (with which my family has ties), or because American Christian missionaries made China their major target in the late 1800s and early 20th century, or the fact that China seems closer because it is "only" on the other side of the Pacific, or because the UK made a focus of India, or what -- but the reason I think we hear little about CFNM in India is because there is damned little in the American public media about India at all.
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« Reply #42 on: Sep 7th, 2010, 7:41am »
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very true Alan c
maybe the Korean war  the Vietnam war and now their economic and political power makes china a threat in the American mind there fore they are always on the radar
whereas the Indians are not sen as a threat and can be ignored.
but this does not answer the question
This site may be administered by americans on an american server but it is open to the whole of cyber space
Take me for e.g. I am neither american nor Indian but I post freely.
india has a huge english speaking computer literate middle class. If they do not post, may be this whole thing is no big deal to them, so they can't be bothered.
Or this site does not have links to Indian sites like debonair blog etc. so they do not know of its existence.
Come to think of it there are not many Chinese posts either , and there is last weeks Newsweek magazine calling Chinese women the power sex!!!wow I bet they would not be averse to a spot of cfnm.
but they are not sharing it on this site.
surely it is not only those who are exposed to British judeo Christian sex standards who are into this thing.
perhaps people of different ethnicities stick to there own web sites
looking forward to some lively responses
 
 
 
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I had never heard of about nude boy punishment in India.  My wife, who is part Hispanic did bring up that in some parts of Latin America, it was popular for moms to strip their sons and then discuss physical development.  However, this was a source of pride, not punishment.
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on Sep 17th, 2010, 8:54pm, richardpr44 wrote:
I had never heard of about nude boy punishment in India.  My wife, who is part Hispanic did bring up that in some parts of Latin America, it was popular for moms to strip their sons and then discuss physical development.  However, this was a source of pride, not punishment.

 
That's very interesting. Can you elaborate on that? Did your wife personally witness this? How old were the boys (age range)? Were they stripped partially or fully nude? Was it done in public or in a more private setting amonst the mom's relatives and friends? I'm very curious. Thanks.
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« Reply #45 on: Sep 19th, 2010, 3:39pm »
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Todd,
 
She did witness this as a girl. The boys would range from ages 5 to 15.   They were fully nude and it was done in a private setting.
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« Reply #46 on: Sep 25th, 2010, 12:07am »
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In India the punishment is known as Murga.  It mostly involves forcing victims into uncomfortable positions, and making them maintain those positions for a length of time (the CIA calls them stress positions).  Though most descriptions of Murga usually do not mention nudity, some sources report that male nudity is often used in mixed settings, usually by female teachers, allowing the girls to help with the punishment by teasing their naked, helpless classmates.  What is a girl to do?
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« Reply #47 on: Sep 25th, 2010, 12:11am »
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My older sister once ordered me to come out of the bathroom naked in front of her and a girlfriend.  I was into CFNM by then.  I pretended to be embarrassed, but I LOVED it.
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I was born and raised in India.  I moved to the US when I was 21.  Nude punishment of boys does occur,  mostly in small towns & villages.  Boys punished are usually 12 years or so.  Not much older.  
 
The more intriguing part of CFNM in India is not the punishment of boys but rather the casual nature of nudity of men overall.  Unlike the US, most Indian homes are modest where people share rooms and bathrooms.  I shared a room with 2 older sisters until I was 18. I would take a shower and walk into the room wearing a towel and change in the room while one or both of my sisters were in the room.  They would see me nude pretty much every day but usually not a word was said nor nudity discouraged.  On the other hand, the sisters would get atleast partially dressed in the shower and walk into the room.   I have to admit that I have seen them naked many times as well but not totally nude. Usually changing bras or panties in a less discrete way.
 
Also, it pretty common to see naked men on the streets and common areas.  The police have been trying to crack down on this but have had little success so far.  These men are usually poor and live on the streets panhandling.
 
My wife, a reluctant CFNM enthusiast, visited India last year.  While she was waiting for a train at the crowded railway station with her female friend, a naked man in drags approached her asking for money.  Not uncommon in India.  She gave him some money and the guy left.  But apparently, the guy stayed in their "view" for a good 30 mins, hanging around asking other people for money.  My wife and her friend were embarassed at the time but got a chuckle when they got home.
 
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on Sep 26th, 2010, 5:55pm, tarzan12 wrote:
I was born and raised in India.  I moved to the US when I was 21.  Nude punishment of boys does occur,  mostly in small towns & villages.  Boys punished are usually 12 years or so.  Not much older.  
 
The more intriguing part of CFNM in India is not the punishment of boys but rather the casual nature of nudity of men overall.  Unlike the US, most Indian homes are modest where people share rooms and bathrooms.  I shared a room with 2 older sisters until I was 18. I would take a shower and walk into the room wearing a towel and change in the room while one or both of my sisters were in the room.  They would see me nude pretty much every day but usually not a word was said nor nudity discouraged.  On the other hand, the sisters would get atleast partially dressed in the shower and walk into the room.   I have to admit that I have seen them naked many times as well but not totally nude. Usually changing bras or panties in a less discrete way.
 
Also, it pretty common to see naked men on the streets and common areas.  The police have been trying to crack down on this but have had little success so far.  These men are usually poor and live on the streets panhandling.
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My wife, a reluctant CFNM enthusiast, visited India last year.  While she was waiting for a train at the crowded railway station with her female friend, a naked man in drags approached her asking for money.  Not uncommon in India.  She gave him some money and the guy left.  But apparently, the guy stayed in their "view" for a good 30 mins, hanging around asking other people for money.  My wife and her friend were embarassed at the time but got a chuckle when they got home.
 
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India must be a great place for CFNM enthusiasts. Apart from the naked beggars one can see youths bathing openly in front of their door in the street. There are several videos of this on Youtube.
This is also seen in some public river bathing and other places, and always males.
There are also religious sects in India where the males are always naked, wherever they go.
So I don't think that public male nudity is illegal in India, and is a part of everyday life in many places there.
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India must be a great place for CFNM enthusiasts. Apart from the naked beggars one can see youths bathing openly in front of their door in the street. There are several videos of this on Youtube.
This is also seen in some public river bathing and other places, and always males.
There are also religious sects in India where the males are always naked, wherever they go.
So I don't think that public male nudity is illegal in India, and is a part of everyday life in many places there.

 
Perhaps, but there is also the crushing poverty and what seem like thousands of very poor people all crammed together in small spaces. That aspect of India takes some getting used to.
 
I haven't been back in almost eight years, and I know things are changing for the (somewhat) better. But I used to dread the ride in from the airport at Mumbai to the part of town where the big hotels are, a distance of about seven miles. The road winds through all manner of busy, crowded, poor urban landscapes, and at many of the stoplights children as young as five or six would be begging, sometimes banging lightly on the windows of the cab with their arm stumps, standing footless on crutches -- because I had learned that those children had been intentionally maimed and suffered amputation so that they would be more effective beggars! Try to look away in a situation like that. If you give money you are encouraging the practice and if you don't your heart is made of stone.
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #53 on: Mar 8th, 2012, 11:06am »
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you're awesome Allan_C...  you hit the nail on the head with india.  sure culturally we have a different attitude to certain things, but going to india, you will never get the feeling that you're in some cfnm/flashers paradise.  there is a big difference of people exposing themselves for sexual gratification vs exposing themselves because of poverty.
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« Reply #54 on: Mar 8th, 2012, 6:44pm »
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on Mar 8th, 2012, 10:00am, Allan_C. wrote:

 
Perhaps, but there is also the crushing poverty and what seem like thousands of very poor people all crammed together in small spaces. That aspect of India takes some getting used to.
 
I haven't been back in almost eight years, and I know things are changing for the (somewhat) better. But I used to dread the ride in from the airport at Mumbai to the part of town where the big hotels are, a distance of about seven miles. The road winds through all manner of busy, crowded, poor urban landscapes, and at many of the stoplights children as young as five or six would be begging, sometimes banging lightly on the windows of the cab with their arm stumps, standing footless on crutches -- because I had learned that those children had been intentionally maimed and suffered amputation so that they would be more effective beggars! Try to look away in a situation like that. If you give money you are encouraging the practice and if you don't your heart is made of stone.

 
Allan, I think that what you mention has nothing to do with CFNM.
I don't see how maiming children to send them begging has in relation to what we are talking about here, apart from the poverty aspect.
But I think that ABHI put it in proper perspective when he said  "The more intriguing part of CFNM in India is not the punishment of boys but rather the casual nature of nudity of men overall."
This is what I was talking about when I said that India is an interesting place in regard to public CFNM, which seems to be part of their culture in many ways.
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #55 on: Mar 8th, 2012, 6:58pm »
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on Mar 8th, 2012, 11:06am, stickman80 wrote:
you're awesome Allan_C...  you hit the nail on the head with india.  sure culturally we have a different attitude to certain things, but going to india, you will never get the feeling that you're in some cfnm/flashers paradise.  there is a big difference of people exposing themselves for sexual gratification vs exposing themselves because of poverty.

 
Stickman, I also do not agree with you. Whether this male exposure is intentional or not, or just carelessness on the part of the males, the fact remains, as many posts here testify, that the girls and women in India get some pleasure from this male nudity. As also I assume the foreign females who visit there, which again other posters have confirmed.
After all, what is the most imprtant thing in a CFNM situation, if not the female enjoyment of the male nudity, whether this is intentional or not, as long as nobody gets hurt.  
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #56 on: Mar 13th, 2012, 6:00pm »
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on Mar 8th, 2012, 10:00am, Allan_C. wrote:

 
Perhaps, but there is also the crushing poverty and what seem like thousands of very poor people all crammed together in small spaces. That aspect of India takes some getting used to.
 
I haven't been back in almost eight years, and I know things are changing for the (somewhat) better. But I used to dread the ride in from the airport at Mumbai to the part of town where the big hotels are, a distance of about seven miles. The road winds through all manner of busy, crowded, poor urban landscapes, and at many of the stoplights children as young as five or six would be begging, sometimes banging lightly on the windows of the cab with their arm stumps, standing footless on crutches -- because I had learned that those children had been intentionally maimed and suffered amputation so that they would be more effective beggars! Try to look away in a situation like that. If you give money you are encouraging the practice and if you don't your heart is made of stone.

 
Well said. And I know that feeling. Makes you cringe - at the world and at yourself, and there's no escaping it. We all have different takes on CFNM, and different conceptions of what the thing itself actually is, but in my opinion it never hurts to have more than one thought in your head - perspective, I believe they call it. Which is what this post is evidence of - and I, for one, appreciate that.
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #57 on: Apr 22nd, 2012, 6:24am »
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In India now a there is no nude punishment because of govt. Rules. But during our childhood it was a common punishment method. I witnessed 2 of them.1 one is when I was 6 yrs old. One teacher took my friends pants off and makes him stand in front of the class and told him to hold his shirt high so everybody can see everything. All boys and girls were laughing at him. Another one happened when I was 9 yrs old. A female teacher took not only pant but all the cloths of a another friend and made him stand in the passage open to all the classes. All girls and boys surrounding him teased him. But he seemed unabashed and was smiling.(because he was a boy and  not  in puberty).(but girls were more advanced ). Girls teased him, saying “look look,maam take all his clothes off make him comp. Naked. But he is not ashamed. Still smiling.hai Raj(his name) u r naked in front of us girls, we can see everything, and still u r not ashamed really is a dirty boy. Naked in front of girls and not embarrassed u should punish hard” Madam made him stand ear holding naked for 2 hours .At last Madam was smiling too.
Another thing happened to me when which was 8 yrs. I had to go to latrine in a middle of class but teacher did not let me. So there was an accident. Teacher took me to the nurse and nurse took all my clothes off for laundry. she helped me to take a bath. So I had to remain comp. Naked. She made me stand in the school backyard openly to wait for my clothes and during the Tiffin   period all boys girls playing there saw me and laughing at me. I was embarrassed.
In home, India, nude punishment exists. I assume 40% of Indians believe in this kind of punishments especially for boys at home and for criminals in public (both male and female criminals). I personally not given this type of punishments but mom threatened 2-3 times that she would use that. When (at 16)  I  scored    bad in an exam mom told me” next time if u dot do well like others boys, i will take all u r clothes, shirt and pant off, strip u completely , make u naked and spank u in front of road outside. Everybody especially girls will see u naked. I will make u nude all day like a baby. If u acts like it u will treat like it” I was really scared at that time. I have heard from a friend that their relatives always give nude punishment for boys; they make then naked for the rest of the day in front of others specially women and this type of punishment mostly administered by women. They believe humiliation is a great punishment. But I never had chance to see that.  
This part is not relevant but I think I should write here. I was in my grandfather’s (mother’s) house. There was granddad grand mom my mom and aunt(unmarried) and elder sister of my  grandmother( elder grandmother) I was 17 at that time and my elder grandmother had not seen me since i was 7. One day we r all chatting and i had to go to take a bath. Elder grandmother started teasing me, saying “ u need assistance? Can i come along with u? What r u ashamed? No.  u should not be. U r still not grown up . and i used to bathe u up to 7. I have seen u naked, even slept nude in my home. So why r u shy now? So let me join u. I will strip u naked and give u a bath. So r we moving along? Suddenly some neighbours came and i had a near escape. She may be serious. Every other person were laughing and there was chance, my mother to say, “son obey her , u r only 17 and not a man , she is u r guardian , she knows the best. But next day something other was going to happen. My grandmother’s house is beside river X ,so house’s back showing the river .  From back right end is bathroom and left end is latrine (not joint). Both is joined by a passage openly visible from outside and inside (u can see everything of river and people r there can see u).passage is only accessible from bathroom door(so housemates cant come).  From that passage u can see nature, trees, river,women bathing in river, child playing, cars collecting land by labours ,women and men walking by but all at a distance of 15 walking steps. My mother told me ”we have a shortage of towels, while u r in a bathroom and u have to use latrine do not bother wrapping u r self with a towel. U can go nude in that passage. I said but mom people can see me naked .mother said” oh no they won’t see u and if they see u they won’t bother. U r only a 17 yrs old boy. Nothing to be ashamed off . now go.so had to walk naked through the passage during the walk i saw if i was seen. I think some men and women noticed me but they did not care. i almost ran through the passage. 4 -5 days passed by. One day i  do not know why no water in bathroom. Lucky for all of the members except me who had finished bathing. My  mother told me “u still have water in the passage tap. take u r bath in the passage. I said in horror but mom? Mom said do what I have said? What have not u naked in passage before? If not u did not follow my instructions. I said no mom i did.mom said, then take a bath there. Make u r naked, i do not want a dirty boy in my home.and if u don’t follow we will strip u and u have to take u r bath in the river in front of everybody.
So i took all my clothes off and went nude in the passage where i took my bath .i noticed al least i was open to direct view of 25 women and 30 men. Though they r at a distance but they can clearly see    me naked bathing. I was bathing nude open to nature. I was embarrassed.  
I had some other experiences.  They are  in forum” WOMEN WHO LOVE MEN PEEING” .i hope u like my true stories. I am giving this same post in 2 -3 forum because of similarity.
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #58 on: Apr 22nd, 2012, 8:35am »
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Hi Abhi,
I am not surprised by these stories since this seems to be a common punishment for boys in India. I have even seen a site,  which I have lost track of, protesting and appealing for this punishment of making boys stand naked in the street in front of their door to stop. This seems to be an acceptable punishment for boys in some parts of India.
I  think one explanation for this use of nudity as punishment for boys in that country is that Indians are by nature, culture, and religion are  against any form of violence. So although we in the West may view this type of punishment as shocking, it is actually a substitute for spanking, which was, and may still be, the common form of punishment in the West for boys, both at home and at school.
So one has to consider this, and argue which is the most cruel punishment between the two.
Incidentally I have seen several accounts which say that nudity as punishment in front of girls was also used in Russian schools, because corporal punishment was not allowed in Russian schools by law. So the teachers obviously had to use an alternative punishment..
After all I wonder, that if given a choice, what boys will choose, either a paddling or caning in class, or standing naked for an hour or two in front of girl classmates.
Same goes for home punishments I suppose.
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« Reply #59 on: Apr 22nd, 2012, 12:51pm »
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ABHI, I find your stories interesting. I've been to India many times and heard occasionally similar tales from Indian colleagues of boys being punished by standing nude and holding their ears, sometimes in front of girls or adult women not in the family. In fact one Indian guy I knew well moved to the US in the 1980s with his wife and three kids for a reasonably high-level job in a major financial firm. While in New York, he told me, his wife punished their son for poor schoolwork by making him stand nude in front of his sisters and their girlfriends! He further said he didn't particularly like the practice, but he decided not to interfere, noting that the wife had primary responsibility for the children and the home and that good work in school was very important. Later they moved back to India where I knew them, and she still punished him that way on occasion he said.
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« Reply #60 on: Jul 10th, 2012, 5:01pm »
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I came across an excellent CFNM fictional account of this on Literotica.  It focuses on the shaming of males through CFNM and has some femdom overtones. But it is interesting and well-written generally and CFNM is at the very heart of the story which is about the practices mainly in India of school disciplinarian Sarah Maitland. Worth a look.
 
 
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« Reply #61 on: Jul 10th, 2012, 5:55pm »
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Thanks Allan_C. That was marvelous stuff!  
 
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« Reply #62 on: Jul 13th, 2012, 7:11pm »
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Thanks for a great post Allan_C. Being punished nude by the school disciplinarian and Principal Ms. Sarah in front of all those females would have made my dayRoll Eyes
 
I surely would have been a very wayward student in that school!Wink
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« Reply #63 on: Aug 28th, 2012, 5:10pm »
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i am from bihar in india. bihar is a less devloped state and a notorious place in india. now it has been improving itself a lot. i also had nude punishment in my family. it all happened 10 years ago, at time i was 13-14 year old boy. i have 2 sisters who are elder to me. once in summer we went to our maternal uncle( brother of my mother ) in summers. where i had a male cousin ( my maternal uncle'n son) who was 10 years old and 3 female cousins. when i reached there i found the family of my uncle was very rural and uncivilized, they often use some nasty words and abusive language to each other, it was a kind of cultre there. they also had a orchid of mango. so after 3-4 days. my aunty ( wife of my mom's brother) said that me and my male cousin would guard and look after of mango orchid. so that any villagers could not pluck mangoes from the tree. as they said we both did. but we found it boering to stay whole day in between mango trees. one day i saw weired thing when i waken up morning after sleeping, i saw my aunt  was shouting on my 10 years old male cousin and he was standing total nude in front all family members. i was surprised but later came to know that here it is a punishment method for teen boys. later one day i did not go to mango trees to guard it, i was sleeping instead. my aunt and mom came to me and my aunt  said me that i should must go to mango orchid every day without fail otherwise the rude villagers would steal mangoes from treee and they would suffer a heavy financial loss.and last my aunt warned me if this happened i would get a total nude punishment in front all as my male cousin gets. i was little scared and did as i was told. after some day, it was nice wether, so me and my male cousin went to orchid and then my male cousin said there is a river nerarby. so i became curious and we both went to river, we played in river for almost 1 hour,when we returned back to mango orchid, we found villagers had plucked most of the mangoes from tree when we were not there. we got afraid and went home and told this to home. my aunt, mom and uncle bacame furious. they scolded us and slapped us. then my uncle said you would get punished. they ordered us ( me  and my male cousin) to strip nude. i was not wanted but i was scared and finally i was in my undearwears in front all. then my aunt forcefully pulled down my undearwear and took it off. so me and my male cousin was totaly nude in front my uncle, aunt , mom, sisters, and cousin sisters, at time i was 14 and my male cousin was 10-11 years old. i was quite tall from my male cousin but my penis was as small as my 11 years old cousin had. so i felt more ashamed then my uncle spanked on my butts with a stick very roughly and then to my cousin. later they asked us to hold each others penis and ear with ours hand. i did not want but then my uncle spanked me very hard.i got scared and i held penis of my younger cousin with one hand and with other hand i held his one ear, and then my cousin held my penis with his one hand and held my ears with his others, so we both were helding each others tiny penis and ears with ours hands. and that time i were feeling totaly humiliated and embarrased. the punishment was not painful but was very shameful. and we both were ordered to remain in same position for 1 hour. so we did this. at time my sisters were lauhing and talking about pathetic condition and it was causing me more shame and humiliation. after  1hour my aunt asked to wear our clothes. so our punishment came to end with an unforgettable memory of humiliation and embarrasment.[/i][i][/i][i][color=Red][/color][b][/b]
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #64 on: Aug 29th, 2012, 1:21am »
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Thanks Sharsome for sharing your experience with us.  Did u get only one nude punishment in your uncles house? What your cousin sisters are saying during your nude punishment?
And how long did ur male cousin receive nude punishment from ur uncle? 17-18y?  
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« Reply #65 on: Aug 29th, 2012, 7:32am »
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Murgha seems more of a stress position punishment.
 
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #66 on: Aug 30th, 2012, 8:02am »
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Sorry but I think those stories are fake. First off all there is not a single Indian source, all the stories here are written in English and probably fake. But beside that, India is a male dominated country and there is no way they threat women better then men.
 
I know a Indian guy and he said that it is all made and I rather believe him then in you wankers.
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« Reply #67 on: Aug 30th, 2012, 11:23am »
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hi abhi, thanks for reply. before giving answers for your question, i want to say something who says these stories are fake.
 
1. if you say you know indians or india then you must be living in india and you should have traveled or roamed every or remote part of india/ indian villages.
2. yes, i am agree altoghter i can say india is a male dominant country.and i think not only india but also whole world. but it does not mean that any male in india never suffered bad or worst . or even they can never be exploit or punished by females.
3. in india there are 28 states in which 120 corore /12 billion pepole live. they all have different culture, customs, traditions and in some parts even goverment or law can not interfere in their life. because they some are very violent and furious.
4. in india there are different religion and in a particular religion their are many cast and in a particular cast their are many sub caste as well.
5. i belongs from a shedule caste which in conider a inferior in compare to some other cast. as far as nudity is concerned it is limted to males and in case of female either the get raped by males or if they found guilty, then the group of males make her nude, cut her hairs and then they made her roam in area nude with beating her a lot. so that is why here in india male dominate culture. but it does not mean boys do not get punished by females. females has all powers to punish a boy (most time  females of home ) until the same boy becomes a full adult.  in most cases the adult males also gives their prior consent or they allow females to punish a boy in any manner they want. and little boys and teen boys are not allowed to deny their order( females order) or the boy cann't resist or protest. if he do so he can get a more rough punishment by adult males of family.  
6. last but not least, YES  while giving a nude punishment to boys every female and adult males get some sexual pleasures and sexual exicitments.
 
i have told what happened with me as a teen boy. further i want to tell you,  that is much more shocking, nasty and sensetaional. my aunt was a iletrate and was a typical village women even you can say her rude. and in her family she dominated over my uncle. the village of my uncle is situated in DARBANGHA DISTRIC IN  STATE BIHAR IN INDIA. were i found teen boys upto age 14-15 usually stay nude because in summeres the temprature reached there 45-48 celcius. you can even today see them totaly nude while bathing in river of village or in the corp field or even in orchids. so nudity of little boys was not a big issue there in compare to some advance part of india. and pepole of the are loves to punish teen boys nude, particulaly by females. because by this the humiliate them. and it has been happenes in most of the houses in nears villages too.
when i went there with my mom and sisters, i found my anty using some weird and nasty words for particularly concerned with  teen boys. like  CHUNNI is a word which mean small penis of teen  boys, PELAHAR  means testes( balls) of boys. BURJARI is a abusive word used for girls means a real prostitute..and many more. so i found my mami( aunty) and other females of village were using this words frequently later i came to know meaning. and there i became familiar with a wiered punishment for small boys, it was CHUTTAD-PATPAT. first my cousin sisters told me about that later i saw it my self. it is a kind of punishent which was used to  given to a stubborn little boy( 8-12 years) and it called chuttad-pat pat. in which first punisher/punisheres  strip nude of that boy the they get his hands tied behind. then get a rough wood or any hard and rough object  over there. then 2-3 pepole fold both legs of boy up to his head.and make his body in a U shape ( nude) and then they lift him in air and then suddenely they put his nude butts on a very rough surface and then they again lift him in air and again swiftly put( as you throw) his butts on same surface. and again they do same untill punishment finished.
 
it is called CHUTAD-PAT PAT because CHUTAD means butts and when the swiftly put/place his butts on rough surface it create a sound like PUT. so this punishment is called CHUTTAD-PAT-PAT. unlike to spanking in WESTERN CULTURE, they do not spank on nude butts but the forcefully put/throw his nude butts by uplifting his body  on a rough surface. it cause so much pain and humilation. this is performed by adult males of same family and females like sisters, mothers, aunty, cousins watch this with a great interest and they all make fun of the boys punishment.  because of this boy gets horrified badly.  
i have written too much so i will tell you  next time, what other punishment/embarrasment had happened with me over there. and abhi, i will answer your question next time.
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #68 on: Aug 30th, 2012, 12:51pm »
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ok sharsome......I am waiting to get ur answer
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« Reply #69 on: Aug 30th, 2012, 5:06pm »
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on Aug 30th, 2012, 8:02am, h20 wrote:
Sorry but I think those stories are fake. First off all there is not a single Indian source, all the stories here are written in English and probably fake. But beside that, India is a male dominated country and there is no way they threat women better then men.
 
I know a Indian guy and he said that it is all made and I rather believe him then in you wankers.

 
Apart from the name calling of other members, may I point out to you that up to about the fifties Europe and America were thoroughly male dominated societies, and yet this was when the double standard concerning nudity was at its strongest.
Girls and women's modesty was always protected, while boys modesty was of no consideration, including for punishments.
It may sound strange to you, but the more male dominated a society is the more this double standard in favour of females. Females usually don't have much rights in such a society, but where nudity and modesty is concerned it is strongly protected, but not so for boys and men.
One can still this in Asia where most countries are still male dominated and yet the double standard stands out, especially in swimming where boys have to swim nude in public, but not girls who usually swim clothed.
About punishments it is also the same. In some male dominated Asian countries, only boys are spanked at school, but not girls. So it is not much different in families, as is being discussed here.
One can believe or not what is being said here, but I wouldn't be surprised considering the vast size and cultural differences in India.
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« Reply #70 on: Aug 30th, 2012, 5:11pm »
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on Aug 30th, 2012, 8:02am, h20 wrote:
Sorry but I think those stories are fake. First off all there is not a single Indian source, all the stories here are written in English and probably fake. But beside that, India is a male dominated country and there is no way they threat women better then men.
 
I know a Indian guy and he said that it is all made and I rather believe him then in you wankers.

 
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« Reply #71 on: Aug 31st, 2012, 4:06am »
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on Aug 30th, 2012, 11:23am, sharsome wrote:

1. if you say you know indians or india then you must be living in india and you should have traveled or roamed every or remote part of india/ indian villages.

 
i have never been there but i learned about it in school and books and i have like 3 indian friends.
 
on Aug 30th, 2012, 11:23am, sharsome wrote:
2. yes, i am agree altoghter i can say india is a male dominant country.and i think not only india but also whole world. but it does not mean that any male in india never suffered bad or worst . or even they can never be exploit or punished by females.

 
women have their rights in other countries, the world is no more male dominated.
 
on Aug 30th, 2012, 11:23am, sharsome wrote:
3. in india there are 28 states in which 120 corore /12 billion pepole live. they all have different culture, customs, traditions and in some parts even goverment or law can not interfere in their life. because they some are very violent and furious.

 
and that is the reason why you guys choose that country to make your fake stories, because nobody can prove it.  
 
on Aug 30th, 2012, 11:23am, sharsome wrote:
5. i belongs from a shedule caste which in conider a inferior in compare to some other cast. as far as nudity is concerned it is limted to males and in case of female either the get raped by males or if they found guilty, then the group of males make her nude, cut her hairs and then they made her roam in area nude with beating her a lot. so that is why here in india male dominate culture. but it does not mean boys do not get punished by females. females has all powers to punish a boy (most time  females of home ) until the same boy becomes a full adult.  in most cases the adult males also gives their prior consent or they allow females to punish a boy in any manner they want. and little boys and teen boys are not allowed to deny their order( females order) or the boy cann't resist or protest. if he do so he can get a more rough punishment by adult males of family.

 
do you have any prove for that? Can you name some books about this? i dont believe a single word until you give some prove.
 
on Aug 30th, 2012, 11:23am, sharsome wrote:
6. last but not least, YES  while giving a nude punishment to boys every female and adult males get some sexual pleasures and sexual exicitments.

 
just a pedo fantasy, i am from 4chan you cant trick me with your bullshit. normal people dont look at kids that way.
 
for all the people that come here, the internet is full of lies, dont believe anything that is not proven. There are no reports in TV or any books that tell about this, the only people that talk about this are people on this forum.
 
on Aug 30th, 2012, 5:11pm, Allan_C. wrote:

 
Your ignorance is awesome. And probably best left in place.

 
i am ignorant for having my own opinion? Maybe you guys are ignorant for trying to censor me.
 
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« Reply #72 on: Aug 31st, 2012, 5:39am »
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people can say what they want on the internet and that is why you should trust no one. Everybody on the internet could tell lies and that is why you have to doubt everything
 
i do not believe you guys until i see some official proves, are there any books or TV reports about this? Can you guys direct me to a indian site that says this is true?
 
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on Aug 31st, 2012, 5:39am, h20 wrote:
people can say what they want on the internet and that is why you should trust no one. Everybody on the internet could tell lies and that is why you have to doubt everything
 
i do not believe you guys until i see some official proves, are there any books or TV reports about this? Can you guys direct me to a indian site that says this is true?
 

 
Fine. Now you've made it crystal clear you don't believe a word of any of this, you've called everyone liars and made your point. So S.T.F.U. about it from this point forward.
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on Aug 31st, 2012, 4:06am, h20 wrote:

 
 
i am ignorant for having my own opinion? Maybe you guys are ignorant for trying to censor me.
 
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I specifically noted I do not want to censor you. I said your ignorance is best left in place. For all to observe.
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« Reply #75 on: Aug 31st, 2012, 12:04pm »
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one more thing
 
why do you guys get so mad? Everybody can has hıs own opinion, i dont believe it, you guys believe it, whats wrong about that? i dont come up to you guys and say things like 'hey you! Why is blue your favorite color? Red is the best color!'
 
if you guys want to believe it then do it, i just say that i think it is fake.
 
Newcomers should have to right to hear both sides of the story.
 
i just recommend everybody to be careful on the internet, because people can say what they want.
 
4chan is a good example for this. They come together and then decide what lie to tell and then they go around the internet and spray their lies.
 
4chan spread many lies like bill cosby is dead or skrillex (or whatever his name is) has cancer. The internet is full of lies and people should be careful. They also made a penis/vagina inspection lie some time ago, they all got to different sites like yahoo! answers and made questions like 'i have a penis inspection in school tomorrow, should i shave?' and other 4channers replied and said things like 'i had mine a few days ago'.
 
What i mean is people should be careful and only believe things that are proven.
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h20,
Nudity as a punishment for boys,and mdn, is commonly used all over the world, including the US, especially in penal institutions in front of female staff. And much of this is accepted as legal.
There are lots of official reports and accounts of this.
So why are you surprised that this happens in some families and communities in India?
Are you also in any doubt that these punishments also happen in some families in the US  or any other country?
It would be very naive, and gross denialism, to say that this never happened or happens.
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hi h 20, India is a big country not only for its population, but also for tradition, economy, science and research. Now India has nuclear weapons and some of the best missile system in world.it has 2nd largest army of world, most ancient culture and origin place of many religions like Hinduism, Jain and Buddhism. India is 6th  biggest economy of world and 2nd most populated country of world after china. It has most number of doctor and engineer s in world. India can launch 4 heavy satellites simultaneously with his rocket launcher. And if anybody talks about spirituality and philosophy then India is best place to find many answers.
But India is an overpopulated country. many cities 16 people sleeps in just one room and many places just  one or two people lives in palace. I have many experiences of my friends about child molestation. I believe 1 out of 10 children goes through the molestation, whether he/she tell it about or not.  And you can calculate it for 12 billion people.  One of my friend revealed that when he was 12 his cousin molested him. When he sleeps s at night with his cousin, he finds his trousers unbuttoned in morning almost every day. Once he was pretending to sleep and found his cousin came to him and unbuttoned his trouser, inserted his hands in his undergarment and started paying with him. He protested then he forcefully took of his all clothes and played with his penis and butts and when he said he would complain it to mom, he said what would you say???  I made you nude and played with your penis? Similarly when I was in college one of my female friends told that his brother was very nasty. When she was 10 and her elder sister was 12 at time. Their own brother used to ask them to fight (wrestling) with each other (sister Vs.  sister). and he used to ask to pull down panties of each other. Who would first take off panties of other, would win. And he used to give 100 rupees (Indian currency) to his winner sister. And his both sister were 10 and 12 at time and he was 18 year old. His sisters did this because he used to force them and entice them for money.  Similarly when I was in luck now (a city in state Uttar Pradesh) a shopkeeper who was almost 60 at time used to molest children by giving them candy and chocolate free. Later he was caught and was beaten. When I was in class 9, at age 15, I used to go to take tuition of maths. The teacher who used to take a test every week for maths. After solving the test paper when he used to check the paper, he would pate my butts for every right answer and for for a wrong answer he used to squeeze or pinch on butts. He used to do that for every student………….and similarly many stories are here, I would be tired writing. So I just have written short and some of them. Similarly many of my friends have told that they got humiliated by their family member (almost badly molested) even by females including mom, sisters, aunty also.
When years ago when I went to my uncle’s home. When I was 13-14 years old. And 1 day I was watching cartoon on TV, my mom asked me to pluck some vegetable’s (tomato and lady finger) from the farm for making curry. But I did not go as I was watching TV. Suddenly my aunt came to me and said to me why you did not go to bring vegetables?? I said I was watching TV.  Then she suddenly  grabbed my penis in her hands swiftly  over my  trouser and asked to me , WHY SHOULD I NOT MAKE A DISH OF YOUR PENIS, WHEN YOU ARE NOT BRINGING VEGETABLES FROM FIELD.  She was holding my penis tightly in her hand and asked SHOULD I CUT IT OFF AND MAKE SOMETHING FROM THIS FOR FOOD. My sisters and cousin were there. They all were laughing and I was completely blushed. So this type of things happened with me over there. And for this we do not go to YAHOO ANSWER and police, Supreme Court etc. Neither we were aware of that. I am not sure what people say on websites but what all I told is all correct and surprisingly it was not a big deal for me. Now if I think about all, I feel it was rather bad and I feel more embarrassed.  
4 years ago when I was studying in ALLAHABAD  in india. I used to stay in allahpur in Allahabad. Where there was a very notorious Police inspector . he was very corrupt and has some political connection too. There was a 12 year old boy who worked in a hotel  near my residence .once the police inspector came to hotel in late knight with his a companion. He had drunked and he ordered for food. Later the 12 year old boy went to served. The boy was a nepali ( residence of NEPAL) and was very fair in complexion. After having dinner the police man took the boy to backside of hotel  and he forcefully fucked his buttholes.  Every people came to know about this, but nothing happened as he was poor.???  Being a poor is biggest crime here !
2 years ago, a film producer and director went to patna( capital of state bihar). They produce movies in local languages ( bojpuri). When a friend of my cousin sister ( daughter of my father’s sister ) reached to give audition. They asked them to perform a dance in bikni, so that the can judge her figure. She was reluctant. But other girls did this. Later the friend of my cousin sister also went in front them in bikni, bikni was just like a tiny bra- panty. But she had to wore this.  Thus they used to took off clothes of girls and nothing happens. Many things are still to write.
 
WHY INDIA????
India has 2nd largest population, many religions, tradition and cast so there are a lot of chances to hear and watch incidents about which we are discussing over here. But bear in mind unlike some small European countries, in India this kind of news seldom reach to media and government.  And media, websites only cover that news, which can be easily sold out.  If mass of people do not take interest over some matter, electronic media and print media will not cover this news. But one can find lots of coverage of RAPE of girls, kidnapping, Porn MMS, forced nudity of girls in movies. Forced to prostitution of girls because MEDIA has been covering these news for selling them to make huge profits.  But what happens in a rural village or town or in home, media and people are least interested. So one cannot find it on net rather you need to be a local person of that place to know about it.
I Have some questions to you ??
How come you reached on this website? Or you were just sleeping on bed and you reached automatically on this website, is it?  No you have been searching for this kind of stuff on net, and you deliberately reached here? Is not true? please give your excuses, like I was just surfing to net and I found this website coincidently, I never ever had thought about this kind of stuff or never had such experiences.  
 Is anyone asking for any favour from anyone? Anyone asking for money? Any charity? Any sympathy? No, then why and for what, you are warning to peoples? Are they kids? They can’t decide it by them self? all the people who comes here always comes deliberately for sharing and reading such experiences, nobody is coaxing them or enticing them to come here If anybody doing ? Then why are you imposing your thoughts to everyone? If they want to read it and share it, let them do that. They are adult enough to decide what to do or what not to do? Understood?????
4 if you go to church either do prayer or left it and if you go to brothel either do it or  
Leave it. Do not ask people why and how come you here? All are obvious.  So either shares your experience or leave this website, do not spoil mood and excitement of other people. Despite if you have some good intension behind it I will help you to get some good proof and evidence. But you must tell me why you want this? If you have some good genuine reasons, then please let me know!
 
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« Reply #78 on: Sep 1st, 2012, 11:55am »
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guys i really dont want to go deeper into this
 
on Aug 31st, 2012, 10:30pm, Bobby Bare wrote:
h20,
Nudity as a punishment for boys,and mdn, is commonly used all over the world, including the US, especially in penal institutions in front of female staff. And much of this is accepted as legal.

 
well dont get me wrong but i thşnk those people are perverted. i have a daughter and a son and i never used nudity as a punishment and i also dont know a single person who does this.  
 
if i ever meet someone who strips their son or daughter as a punishment i will call the police and probably break that guys nose.
 
on Aug 31st, 2012, 10:30pm, Bobby Bare wrote:
There are lots of official reports and accounts of this.

 
can you show me some of them. as i said above, i dont believe anything that isnt proven.
 
on Aug 31st, 2012, 10:30pm, Bobby Bare wrote:
So why are you surprised that this happens in some families and communities in India?
Are you also in any doubt that these punishments also happen in some families in the US  or any other country?
It would be very naive, and gross denialism, to say that this never happened or happens.

 
i doubt that people punish their kids with nudity şn şndia because i know their culture and the only people that report about these things are americans, there is not a single indian site reporting about this
 
There might be some parents who do these kind of stuffs but they are perverted people and society hates them.
 
There was a thread on 4chan some time ago about nude punishment in china. Someone uploaded a picture of a 9 year old kid tied up naked at the front of his house, his parents got their asses kicked. Yes there are people who do this but they are perverted, this is not a common thing to do.
 
on Sep 1st, 2012, 9:39am, sharsome wrote:
One of my friend revealed that when he was 12 his cousin molested him. When he sleeps s at night with his cousin, he finds his trousers unbuttoned in morning almost every day. Once he was pretending to sleep and found his cousin came to him and unbuttoned his trouser, inserted his hands in his undergarment and started paying with him. He protested then he forcefully took of his all clothes and played with his penis and butts and when he said he would complain it to mom, he said what would you sayHuh  I made you nude and played with your penis?

 
this is rape and it happens everywhere.  
 
on Sep 1st, 2012, 9:39am, sharsome wrote:
I Have some questions to you ??
How come you reached on this website? Or you were just sleeping on bed and you reached automatically on this website, is it?  No you have been searching for this kind of stuff on net, and you deliberately reached here? Is not true? please give your excuses, like I was just surfing to net and I found this website coincidently, I never ever had thought about this kind of stuff or never had such experiences.

 
i am interested in cfnm, but not in child rape. When i saw this nude inda punishment i searched it on google because i wanted to know if it is true or not and all i found was some yahoo answer questions and this thread.
 
on Sep 1st, 2012, 9:39am, sharsome wrote:
Is anyone asking for any favour from anyone? Anyone asking for money? Any charity? Any sympathy? No, then why and for what, you are warning to peoples? Are they kids? They can’t decide it by them self? all the people who comes here always comes deliberately for sharing and reading such experiences, nobody is coaxing them or enticing them to come here If anybody doing ? Then why are you imposing your thoughts to everyone? If they want to read it and share it, let them do that. They are adult enough to decide what to do or what not to do? UnderstoodHuh??

 
some people dont have enough experience in live to understand what is right and what is wrong and that is why i am here.
 
on Sep 1st, 2012, 9:39am, sharsome wrote:
4 if you go to church either do prayer or left it and if you go to brothel either do it or  
Leave it. Do not ask people why and how come you here? All are obvious.  So either shares your experience or leave this website, do not spoil mood and excitement of other people. Despite if you have some good intension behind it I will help you to get some good proof and evidence. But you must tell me why you want this? If you have some good genuine reasons, then please let me know!

 
this is an open discussion forum and everybody can leave his comment on a topic.
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« Reply #79 on: Sep 1st, 2012, 1:45pm »
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hi h20,
 
although i have good regards for your feeling. i do not know your country? may be USA. but i must say GOOGLE IS NOT A MEDICINE FOR ALL ILLNESS. google needs help of pepole to collect data, if data have not been upladed on net, google can not show you. pepoles in country like india, nepal, srilanka, pakistan, bhutan, do not know ( mostly ) what is GOOGLE ? They are poor enough to buy a laptop and computer.and also do not know how to operate.
i can give you every address, name of city, town, person, year and every thing related to such incident ( which i know that happened). but it is of not any use, you can not fight with them after comming in india . even local police will be laughing on you for this.
if you really want read further about it, i advide you to go to google and get address of publication of these mazazine, like  NOOTAN KAHANIA, MANORAMA, SATYA KATHAYA, SARAS SALIL, CRIME REPORTER, and then get a phone number, call them to send every copy of mazazine for last 2 year to your address. then get it read it i bet you will very true incident of this along with name and address of those who has  done it. you will have to work really hard.
i firmly believe in every 2 person out of 100 is a offender/culprit in india. and every 1child out of 100 is a victim of molestation. nothing is certain and fix.
In some case suppose a lady do not humiliate or molest her child but she allows or enjoys  other ( anyone) to molest or embarresed her child then she is also a culprit.  and definetly this is happened with me. my mom did the same.  
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
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on Aug 30th, 2012, 8:02am, h20 wrote:
Sorry but I think those stories are fake. First off all there is not a single Indian source, all the stories here are written in English and probably fake. But beside that, India is a male dominated country and there is no way they threat women better then men.
 
I know a Indian guy and he said that it is all made and I rather believe him then in you wankers.

 
Dude, go on YouTube and type 'nude Jain monks india'. You will see many videos of jain monks living completely nude 24/7. It's a sect which allows women to join but thy are covered from head to toe in white. There are joint prayer sessions and families come to visit and pray in the temple. Yes, families with children.
The posters here are talking about the rural parts of india. The urban areas have become very westernized and do not allow such practices. But in rural parts, the women have very little rights. As a result household duties rest completely on the women. Female modesty is protected rigorously by families to the extent that women are killed by their own families if they are raped or molested.
It isn't uncommon to see grown men bathe outdoors un nothing but a skimpy loincloth. Boys will bathe nude in the open or in a river or lake. It is accepted and no one even notices these things.
Please refrain from flaming genuine posters. your friends must be from urban cities and hence, totally unaware of this culture in india.
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h 20, i m sorry i forgot to tell you one thing in my previous reply. 2 months ago, AAMIR KHAN ( most famous actor of india) has started a  public show on TV named SATAMAV JAYETE. in which he raised such topics which has been conidered as a TABOO in indian culture as it is very embarrasing. so they approaced pepole, did a survey amongst pepole, whether has ever been a victim of some weird things ( like child molestation by family members) and pepole came to tv and told their agony and it was telecasted all over country.
now show has been off, but you can go on you tube and search for the same, in SEARCH option and you can get a recorded and uploaded video of the programe. or you can go to google and search for the same stories of pepole. and you can also check google for FAMOUS NITARI KAND OF NOIDA.
some movies like MONSOON WEDDING also raised voice for this kind of things. i will write some of my remaining experience which is quite SHOCKING over here. be reddy for it. if your from USA, i have a question regarding girls rape in IRAQ by us soilders during war. also i had seen most horrible video which now has been deleted from all the websites( which had it).
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on Aug 31st, 2012, 10:30pm, Bobby Bare wrote:
h20,
Nudity as a punishment for boys,and mdn, is commonly used all over the world, including the US, especially in penal institutions in front of female staff.

 
This is true in the US male penal system.  Of course the stated reason is equal employment opportunity but it is often used as CFNM fetish by the women and male guards.
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I've quietly followed the posts in here & it seems to me that sharsome, being Indian & taking great care & a LOT of words, to clarify the position to non-Indians, he kinda holds all the Aces, as it were.
 
I say this as I'm British, & ruled India personally for nearly 300 years, eat curry, kedgeree & popadoms every week  & live in a bungalow without a verandah, both of which are Indian borrowings so I'm thus qualified to comment, & sharsome's posts seem pretty close to the mark in my racial memory as an ex-colonialist.
 
Let's have a little respect for the norms of other cultures is all I'm suggesting, & perhaps not wander too far from the OP's topic.
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Just a note on male domination and female modesty. I have come to be more and more of the opinion that female modesty is largely IMPOSED by males who feel possessive about "their" females and (not unjustly) paranoid about the intent of other males.
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Funnison:
 
"I have come to be more and more of the opinion that female modesty is largely IMPOSED by males who feel possessive about "their" females and (not unjustly) paranoid about the intent of other males."
 
Interesting theory, I can see how you would think that.  I really don't agree with your theory because I have observed that men are generally unsuccessful in imposing their ideas on women.  I agree we try, but I don't think we succeed very often.  What I do observe is that females feel very differently about exposing their breasts than they do about exposing the labias.  I have always assumed that the reason for that is that with their breasts they have something to show.  It could also be that women are modest because if they are naked they are more vulnerable to rape or molestation.
 
What I think is more interesting is why men are modest.  What do we have to be modest about? How many cases of women raping men have your heard about?  Are we not proud of being men?  I would be interested in your opinion of the roots of male modesty.
 
I would also like someone to speculate on the roots of the nude punishment of boys in India.  It is an odd custom for a patriarchal society.  It strikes as more likely that it is an act of revenge against patriarchalism rather than either a punishment or a sex trip.
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on Sep 1st, 2012, 11:03pm, Youngren wrote:
Funnison:
 
"I have come to be more and more of the opinion that female modesty is largely IMPOSED by males who feel possessive about "their" females and (not unjustly) paranoid about the intent of other males."
 
Interesting theory, I can see how you would think that.  I really don't agree with your theory because I have observed that men are generally unsuccessful in imposing their ideas on women.

 
The patriarchal Saudi society has been unsuccessful in imposing their ideas on women? When it makes world headlines when ONE woman dares to defy the law and drive a car, you still think patriarchies aren't brutally effective in imposing a male-centric world view on everyone? Thank god they are no MORE successful than they historically have been!
 
Anyway, I don't doubt that females in patriarchal societies have genuine fears about being exposed to males. The have good reason to be and are being quite rational about things. So in that sense, it is not JUST that men don't want "their" women exposed to others, but both halves of this tend to reinforce each other.  
 
Also, when it comes to more personal modesty, ie modesty driven largely by one's own concerns, I think only a relatively small percentage has anything at all to do with fears about "not measuring up".
 
One of my favorite things to say is that in both my best and my worst dreams, I am naked. Even ignoring overtly sexual dreams, dreams in which I am nude, but cheerfully accepted are a real high. Same in real life. Dreams in which I am nude and subject to scorn and derision, or am nude out in the open and trying to hide from scorn and derision, really suck. Nudity is symbolic of exposure of yourself as a person in general and I think it's no accident that my pleasant nudity dreams tend to occur when I am feeling good about my self and about how people are receiving me, and the bad ones tend to occur when I am plagued by self doubt and/or have been subjected to a lot of criticism, whether just, unjust or, more usually, something in between.
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hi everyone & h20, i tried to find some data on net against child abuse and punishments. pls have a look. copy and paste it on google and see by youself. although most( 90%)t data do not reach on internet but you can assume what is going on ?
 
1.Girl punished, paraded nude by family - Times Of India
articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com › Collectiions
 
2.Boy beaten,head shaved, paraded naked for stealing www.merinews.com/article/boy-beatenhead...naked.../134310.shtml
 
so these are some data, which i just found which is enough to tell that ALL IS NOT WELL IN INDIA. but if you want to know more specific and clear you need to live here, or just consult for LOCAL NEWS PAPERS OF RURAL AREAS. and i sure you will get 100 of such cases with all proff,which is almost HIDDEN till today.
 
3.Indian Child Abuse Statistics – What Can We Do? | An Unquiet Mind
skeptic.skepticgeek.com/.../indian-child-abuse-statistics-what-can-we-..  
 
 
4..Vulnerable Children Child Abuse Child Violence in India www.childlineindia.org.in/child-abuse-child-violence-india.htm
5..child sexual abuse in Indian country. - Tribal Law Journal
tlj.unm.edu/tribal-law-journal/articles/volume.../abuse/content.php
6.Child abuse cases coming out of the closet - Times Of India
articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com › Collections › Incident
 
7.Asia Sentinel - Hidden Darkness: Child Sexual Abuse in India www.asiasentinel.com › Society( Must read comments of pepole )
 
8.Over 50% of children face sexual abuse in India www.defence.pk › Forum › World Affairs
 
9.ODD NEWS AND STORIES: November 2006
darkandbizaarestories.blogspot.com/2006_11_01_archive.html
 
10.Stripped by her own sons and relatives: Widow is assaulted and ... www.dailymail.co.uk/indiahome/indianews/.../Stripped-sons-relatives
 
11.When women become 'witches' - Times Of India
articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com › Collections › Witchcraft
 
12.Violence Against Women in India - Keeping a log: Mar 13, 2012; 2 ...
stop-abusing-women.blogspot.com/.../mar-13-2012-2-women-parad.
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[i][/i]hi everyone & h20, i tried to find some data on net against child abuse and punishments. pls have a look. copy and paste it on google and see by youself. although most( 90%)t data do not reach on internet but you can assume what is going on ?
 
1.Girl punished, paraded nude by family - Times Of India
articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com › Collectiions
 
2.Boy beaten,head shaved, paraded naked for stealing www.merinews.com/article/boy-beatenhead...naked.../134310.shtml
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3.Indian Child Abuse Statistics – What Can We Do? | An Unquiet Mind
skeptic.skepticgeek.com/.../indian-child-abuse-statistics-what-can-we-..  
 
 
4..Vulnerable Children Child Abuse Child Violence in India www.childlineindia.org.in/child-abuse-child-violence-india.htm
5..child sexual abuse in Indian country. - Tribal Law Journal
tlj.unm.edu/tribal-law-journal/articles/volume.../abuse/content.php
6.Child abuse cases coming out of the closet - Times Of India
articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com › Collections › Incident
 
7.Asia Sentinel - Hidden Darkness: Child Sexual Abuse in India www.asiasentinel.com › Society( Must read comments of pepole )
 
8.Over 50% of children face sexual abuse in India www.defence.pk › Forum › World Affairs
 
9.ODD NEWS AND STORIES: November 2006
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10.Stripped by her own sons and relatives: Widow is assaulted and ... www.dailymail.co.uk/indiahome/indianews/.../Stripped-sons-relatives
 
11.When women become 'witches' - Times Of India
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12. Violence Against Women in India - Keeping a log: Mar 13, 2012; 2 ...
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so these are some data, which i just found which is enough to tell that ALL IS NOT WELL IN INDIA. but if you want to know more specific and clear you need to live here, or just consult for LOCAL NEWS PAPERS OF RURAL AREAS. and i sure  you will get  enough information there.
Although I do not want to defame my country. But  I want to tell you that here situation is different as seen from very far place. Yes, Indian are not very furious and very conservative in respect of sex. But forced  NUDITY  is a common weapon here and in case of boys  only nudity is not enough, so many times boys not only gets humiliation but also get their  genital teased  and most cases it is done by either family members or relatives or neighbours.  98% cases the victim remains silent as he/she do not know how to react ? what to react ? whom to react ? and if culprit is a family person, it becomes more diffcult to victim to go against the culprit !
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What has whether women driving cars got to do with women's ideas of modesty.  Yes, men can force women to obey the law but what they can't do, never have and never will is change their ideas about what is appropriate for a woman.  What women find sexy is something men will never control.
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Regardless of how much IS or ISN'T true about punishments in India, since when is abuse ever sexy?
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yes, one can say so, what i found here in  india particularly in remote and rural areas, normally men remain in minimum clothes due to high temerature ( almost 40 celicus) for at least 4-5  months of summer.
and children and teen boy remain in either undeargarments only or nude sometimes, they can bath nude, pee nude. so when it comes to punishments, only nudity is not enough. so the boys get some extra punishment and the target would be obviosly penis and butts of boys.and teasing their genitals in front females increase their embarrassment and humiliation. some cases it is OK or almost funny and in some cases. they use quite harsh and rude methods for punishment.
when i was in my uncle's home, there were some group of boys from CHAMRUTI( lower cast pepole) they boys were of age 10-16. normally in rural village a poor man also have a big family, a man normally have 7-8 childrens and due to poverety he can't feed them enough. so boys used to do stealing of corps. or even shocking they used to steal milk of cows by milking them in fields. when owner of cows came to know they got furious but boys ran away. one day a boy ( age 12) has caught red handed stealing maze from field, they field was besides river, the owners were already very angry from them( boys). this time they caught him red handed, they made boy stripped, and tied is hands behind. and then they gave him a very weired and extremly funny punishment which is called, CHUTTAD-PAT-PAT, in which they bent his legs upto his soilders and made her body in U shape, then they lifted his body in air and swiftly rammed her nude butts on burning sand ( it was river there and sand got hot due to high temprature). again they lifted him in air and rammed too badly on sand. i along with some others was watching it and was completely perplexed. the punishment was not hurting the boy as they were ramming his butts on hot sand. but it was quite barbaric and rude, because they all were behaving with him as he did not deserve any dignity and self esteem. but i must say, all of us who were watching it found it rather funny and exciteing.
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Interesting comment, sharsome. And it's very pertinent to mention the Chamruti & the complex but very real Indian caste system in your analysis, a cultural allusion which puts things into perspective.
 
I'm enjoying your fascinating insights into Indian life, & clearly dispassionate & objective viewpoint.
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thanks, chaoslord 621 for your attentions.
as you told you are from british, so i believe definetly you have knoweledge of indian-social structure, religions, cast system, traditions and customs....etc.
earler when britishers were rullinh here they tried to abolish a lot's of malpractises of society, like child-marriage, Sati-pratha( a female  must have to die after death of husband), dowry, forced prostitution etc. i will say after 1947 india has hanged a lot.but it will take more time to change the rural areas as comparision to urban areas. second law & order seems helpless in rural areas because pepole are here still very conservative. they think they can own decide what is good or bad, you can check on net for various absurd and brutal decissions of PANCHAYAT, khaap PANCHAYAT( a group of pepole act like a judge in court ) and pepoles are bound to obey them.
now gradually  Information technology is reaching to villages and urban areas. so i think in comming years you will hear a lot's of cases from pepole as today i am writing here. previously pepole do not has access to IT and computers, internet to tell what they saw or what happened with them. so do not surprise if more shocking news comes to you all.
for pepole who did this or do this is a kind of punishment and totaly depends on their consent. for intellectual pepole or urban pepoles it is a child abuse/molestation/rape. and for pepole who watch this all is a kind of funny and exciting Show with free of cost. for Goverment and beurocrats it is UNKNOWN FACT. and for REST OF WORLD or DEVLOPED countries it is weired, impractical and Impossible incident. so every person has different outlook and perceptions towards this. and as far as females participation is related to boy's nude punishment, i think in rural places, man somehow find some instrument for entertainment. like playing cards, smoking, drinking alchol, etc. but rural females do not have any devices for amusement. so feel very curious and eager regarding boys nude punishments. and they show a good interest in this kind of punishments.
anyway but i will keep posting such things which is hidden and will also tell you how horny, lusty are men of india  what i watched and gone through. your comments is always welcome !
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What has whether women driving cars got to do with women's ideas of modesty.  Yes, men can force women to obey the law but what they can't do, never have and never will is change their ideas about what is appropriate for a woman.  What women find sexy is something men will never control.

 
You doubted my original theory by saying: "I really don't agree with your theory because I have observed that men are generally unsuccessful in imposing their ideas on women." I refuted that by pointing out just how ferociously successful men HAVE been in imposing their ideas on women, citing the case of "women shouldn't drive" as just one screamingly obvious example of an idea imposed on women in one particular highly patriarchal society. Driving has nothing per se to do with women's ideas of modesty, but the nearly universally obeyed prohibition on women driving in Saudi Arabia says a LOT about how much men DO impose on women in societies that condone that arrangement.
 
What women consider sexy, otoh, has, as far as I can tell, absolutely nothing to do with what were are discussing here, ie female modesty in male dominated societies.
 
I've seen it said before on this board long ago and it bears repeating: When we talk about the "double standard" re male vs female modesty in the case of, eg, swimming in the 19th and early 20th centuries, it is not so much the case that males had to be nude and women were allowed to stay clothed as that males were allowed to be nude (though there may have been some social pressure to be nude) and women HAD to stay clothed. People like H2O seem to think that cfnm arrangements would be less likely in a male dominated society. But women staying clothed in those societies is generally not about women having more choice in the matter than men, but less. So it is perfectly consistent with patriarchy. Of course, when we are talking specifically about punishment, ie coerced nudity precisely to shame, it does seem at first as though the males are for sure getting the short end of the stick and certainly in some sense they are. But I think the patriarchal attitude towards females as sexual property overrides everything else. If you expose your son, you are shaming him. If you expose your daughter, you are bringing shame on yourself and your clan.
 
And the proof is in the pudding re when females DO get exposed. I've heard of females being paraded nude in pre-US-invasion Afghanistan (it may well still happen). And the way it works is precisely that members of OTHER clans do it to humiliate the males in women's own clan. The women of course are also humiliated. But the objective is to show the males "See what we can do to your women?", a crushing humiliation for the male clan mates.
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on Sep 3rd, 2012, 12:31am, dwyern wrote:
Regardless of how much IS or ISN'T true about punishments in India, since when is abuse ever sexy?

 
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As the original topic of this thread was specific to India, & posters have somewhat veered off-topic (insofar as India is concerned), by alluding to 'world'  cultural norms & psychological perceptions in, broadly speaking, North America ( a highly conservative & fundamentalist Christian zone ), I find all the  contributions from sharsome, our reporter on the spot as it were, fascinating. And a nice diversion, with his incisive & culturally accurate observations.
 
You don't get many contributors from India anywhere on forums anywhere with the insight which sharsome brings.  The ancient Hindu temples, with their highly erotic sculptures, & the perplexing sexual & cultural mores of the subcontinent (lets forget the somewhat irritating Muslim minority for the moment, as we all know what agenda they follow), I find brings a refreshing & radical slant on the basic concept of cfnm, as viewed from a European perspective.  
 
I think it simplistic of contributors to allude to 'patriarchal' or 'matriarchal' societies, as India to me seems to be neither, yet both, paradoxically.
 
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on Sep 3rd, 2012, 12:31am, dwyern wrote:
Regardless of how much IS or ISN'T true about punishments in India, since when is abuse ever sexy?

 
It IS sexy for the females involved. And is the whole point of the punishment, shaming the boy in front of girls and women, who obviously enjoy it.
Sharsome also has a point, in that it may be the only form of entertainment for females in these rural areas.
As for it being abuse or not, this depends upon the culture and different perspectives.  
Many in our Westerrn culture consider beating children as punishment as normal and acceptable. Isn't this also abuse? Probably many, probably most parents, do not think so.
There is also the boys perspective, if given a choice, what would these boys choose as a punishment, a spanking, probably bared anyway, or just exposing themselves in front of girls?
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As for the complaint by some posters that there are no sites about this subject from Indians themselves, there are in fact quite a few, though mostly in Hindi or  mixture of Hindi and English.
I will give a link to one of them in another post, which is mostly in English.
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Fair point: even if one allows that there are such things as patriarchal societies, which there surely are, and even if female nudity taboos are there in such societies largely for the reasons I suggest, there is still a lot of room for both cultural and individual variation in the perception of and reaction to whatever double standards do exist. I was simply pointing out that H2O's objections that India is too male dominated for such practices as those described to exist is based on a very faulty premise, as it appears again and again to be female nudity, not male nudity, that becomes extremely taboo in highly patriarchal societies. This seems empirically irrefutable and I was just offering an admittedly very brief, hence surely oversimplified account of why. But I have thought a lot about it and do believe what I am saying to be fundamentally correct and of some real relevance to all discussions of the double standard.
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That's what I said in a previous post. The more patriarchal a society is the more prevalent the double standard concerning nudity. And I gave the reasons why, together with examples. But no one commented on it.
This has always been so in nearly all patriarchal civilizations from ancient times till today.
From Ancient Greece to the Victorian era, both highly patriarchal societies, CFNM flourished.
It is only when women began to gain equality that CFNM began to be frowned upon.
India is a good example of still traditional patriarchal societies in rural areas where CFNM is part of life.
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i want to say, practically there is not any female dominative society in world. what i said it does not mean in india. females dominates. especially in rura; areas where females are illetrate, unskilled. unemployed then how can they dominate Huh?
what i said it was men who wanted this all for their sexual amusement and were resorting the name of punishment. and females were just fulfilling men desires. without men consent it is not possible for females to enjoy boys nudity. think practically females are even here being used by men.??  
what is a cultre ?? i think what we gets or learn from our ancestors is a cultre. if s son of daciot or robber learns from his father, how to rob or kill pepole. then it is his cultre and if a son of doctor learns how to decently behave with pepole then it would be his cultre. even they can be live in same country, city or town.  
i think no where in world anyone gives nude punishment to girls. as even in india no body can make even a 5 years girl nude ( except her mom).  and it is useless to discuss double standard. as even a elder sister can tease or enjoy her younger brother's forced nudity even though the same brother will  never enjoy if some one would be molesting or undressing/raping  his elder sister Huh?  will se enjoy his sister's rape ?? anyone from anypart of world ?? so if no is answer, then why talk about double standard Huh we can not violate female dignity ! a UNIVERSAL TRUTH FOR FOREVER.
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Sharsome, that is the meaning of the double standard, where males are made to be nude in front of females but not the other way round.
While it is true that there are no matriarchal, female dominated societies, except maybe in some African tribes, there are societies where there is equality of the sexes, that is where women have equal rights as men in everything, and so they are not patriarchal, and that includes all Western countries.
 
As an example, up to the 60's in America HS boys were made to swim nude at school, but not girls. Same at YMCA's and camps, where nudity was compulsary for boys and men, sometimes under the guidance of clothed female instructors and lifeguards.
Ironically this nudity double standard in favor of females ended when women began to assert and fight for equal  rights in the mid sixties, and thus America ceased to be a patriarchal society.
So there are benefits for women in a patriarchal society, especially where CFNM is concerned, because such societies protect female modesty, but not usually male modesty, especially boys.
 
So you are right in that these situations of forced nudity of boys in front of females is with the blessing of the dominant males.
Something which the anti-feminists, including some on this board, cannot understand or admit.
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That's what I said in a previous post. The more patriarchal a society is the more prevalent the double standard concerning nudity. And I gave the reasons why, together with examples. But no one commented on it.
This has always been so in nearly all patriarchal civilizations from ancient times till today.
From Ancient Greece to the Victorian era, both highly patriarchal societies, CFNM flourished.
It is only when women began to gain equality that CFNM began to be frowned upon.
India is a good example of still traditional patriarchal societies in rural areas where CFNM is part of life.

 
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bobby bare, sorry if i was wrong. i has never read too much theorey regarding society.  what i all said it is besed upon what i saw and felt there. again female can dominate but certainily they need prior consent of men, only rare cases a female/females behave like a autocrat when the get a lot's of power with them. for teasing a boy a female must have such powers like she should be teacher. trainer,mother, elder sister, or any close relative.when i was in my uncle village, although my aunt was more furious and aggresive than my uncle. but she altimately got all power from uncle ( as he did not interfere in her matter and acts) and the encouraging enviorment of village. and my mom did not interfere her too. so she became like a autocrat, and solely my little resistence was of no use. and it is also applicable to other females of there.
when i said culture, actually my aunt and other females must have been learnt in their young age/teen age that how to dominate/punish teen boys. she had a very furious and dominating attitude towards small/teen boys. some example i have already told you, and she believed in nude punishments of teen boy the first target should be his penis as it is a most sensetive part of a boy, therefore best option for punishments. and some times she exposed me totally infront my sisters/female cousins and teased it quite rudely. even i was started regreting why i have a penis? so my own sisters heared. watched and learned my punishment along with my male cousin.although it was a barbaric method but they got some insight how to make a boy submmisive. suppose had my sisters lived in such circumstances from their childhood the would have adopted it without any hesitation. so this type of cultres and tendency is always adopted and learnt from past experiences.  
as far as doble standard is concerned, yes, i have never seen my sisters/cousin nude or semi nude.
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Sharsome, another custom in remote Indian villages seems to be of.boys swimming nude in rivers, ponds, and such places, even in the presence of girls and women. Was this the case at your aunt's village?
Do the boys, especially older ones, swim nude voluntarily or they have no choice about it?
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yes, it was a common senario there. mostly male used to bath outside. there were some obvious reasons, every house did not have a bathroom, and water arrangements so, females used to get water from outside boring pump /even from wall or pond.and then female would bath inside the home after getting water from outside. but men usually bath outside, either in front of house or pond or river.as far as boys/teen boys are concerned they had to bath outside. normally they were not allowed to take bath inside like girls. so mostly i seen boys were bathing outside either seminude or sometimes totally nude ( teen boys). so seeing nude by their family members/father, mother,sisters was very common for them. yes if boy was very shy then it was very ebbarrasing for him while bathing seminude/nude, if neighbouring female/girls comes to visit his home. but still they had no options except simply go to river and bath there. most of time i wanted to go to river but my mom and aunt did not allow as my younger cousin was small for bathing in a deep river.
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« Reply #107 on: Sep 9th, 2012, 7:39am »
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sharsome.....what did  ur aunt say during ur nude punishment and what did ur sisters say  to embarrass u?.....how many times u get nudu punishments and why?
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Apart from the nude punishments, boys bathing nude outside and swimming nude in full view of everyone must be a CFNM heaven for the girls there.
The custom of boys swimming nude still seems to be common in many places in India, even on public beaches, as these photos show.
Unlike nude punishments these boys, even at an older age, don't seem to mind whoever sees them, and even happily pose for photographs, probably by tourists present, as can be seen in these two photos.
 
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That's what I said in a previous post. The more patriarchal a society is the more prevalent the double standard concerning nudity. And I gave the reasons why, together with examples. But no one commented on it.
This has always been so in nearly all patriarchal civilizations from ancient times till today.
From Ancient Greece to the Victorian era, both highly patriarchal societies, CFNM flourished.
It is only when women began to gain equality that CFNM began to be frowned upon.
India is a good example of still traditional patriarchal societies in rural areas where CFNM is part of life.

 
This pattern can also be seen in some cultures that are/were even older than ancient Greece.  On Pentecost Island, for example -- the origin of "bungee jumping" -- only males are allowed to jump, and women are barred from the jump platform construction site.  But males in some villages even today go around with genitals and buttocks exposed; women do not.  Similarly, in many Indian tribes in North America, men often wore much less clothing than women and on much of the Pacific Coast nothing at all whenever weather permitted; but in historic times chiefs were invariably male (here one should not confuse "matrilineal", which some tribes were, with "matriarchal".)
 
This is one reason I don't go for female-domination scenarios.
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hi, abhi and everyone. actually i do not get time in working days, so most of time i reply and write on week offs, so i will write a longer version on week off's .
i told you earlier  how i got a weired intoduction to my first nude punishment at my aunt's village. so as i told i did a big mistake and me and my younger cousin got nude punishment, in which we had to strip nude and had to held penis and ears of each others. so at the time i was nude in front my sister's ( after 2-3 years) and before my cousin sisters( first time). as i told i was just completing 13 and my male cousin was 11, i was in class 6 and he was in class 4 at time. actually i had to suffer a lot b'coz of my younger cousin, as he was 2 -3 year younger to me,and he was habitual to be nudity in rural enviroment, where as i was new one, second he was a big fool and was too young to feel shame(fully). so when he and i was standing nude helding each other's penis and ears,( for almost 1 hour). my sisters(all) were around there, they were smiling and talking about our genitals, one of my sister said that even i am elder to my cousin buy my penis is as tiny as my male cousin, soi got ashamed for my little penis.  then one of my elder sister(my eldererst sister, 18 years) had whispered something in ears of my male cousin, ( i listned but was not clear to me). my male cousin smiled but nothhing happened, then again my elder sister said something in to his ears. and then he suddenely squeezed my penis  and earwith his all might. i felt pain and anger, and as a reaction, i also squeezed his penis and ear with all my force, he also sceamed in pain. so he again did the same and as a reaction i again did same, so thus we both were squeezing and pulling  each others penis and ears with our all might( it was causing extreme pain) and my all sisters, female sisters were laughing loudly. when i watched them laughinh i got to knew that it was their trick . they used this trick to us.and we both were teasing each others genitals and ears. so i stopped teasing him and said to him, that it is their trick, so listening this he also stopped doing this. ( later he revealed to me that my elder sister had asked him to squeeze my penis and ear hardly).  
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thanks sharsome we r waiting for ur detailed answer......
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Well I am from India and have never seen a teen being punished nude. Ofcourse I would like to add that I have spent my entire life so far in Indian metro cities, I don't know if the things posted here do happen in villages. But yes, I guess boys are a bit less modest but I guess thats because many Indian families are joint (i.e. mom, dad, kids, dad's parents, probably dad's brother and his wife and kids ,perhaps even two-three brothers stay together) and space is less (i.e. everyone dont have personal rooms) so kids or teens do get in scenarios where they have to change in front of someone or perhaps bath in front of family in back yard or something and with females being clothed, I guess thats obvious.
Also boys do stay in less clothes here, purely because of the climate. Infact I myself used to stay at home in undies till I was 12-13, then if to cover oneself in front of visitors or not is a choice of the kid and his parents.
Would also like to add that its not only boys, even girls (although very less) who are in state of undress in their homes. A girl used to stay next door to me, she used to be in her panties till she was 11-12 and did not care if someone saw her. So there are instances where even females are less clothed.  
But the point of my post is that no one is forced OR to reword my statement - No one I know has been forced.  
 
I question to people who said nude punishment exists or they were subject to it - Did it actually had any effect? I mean I would be shy and embarrased probably for first or second time but by the third time every one would have seen everything of me, so I would not care if they punish me by making naked, as there nothing new people would see.
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I must say, that when i was in my aunt village, i have seen girls and females semi-nude too, and  even today one can see a 10-12 girl in just her panty. i had seen boys totally nude but it was very rare if anyone could see a girl nude or her nude genitals. some times my sisters and cousin sisters used to go to river to bath, so in river  while bathing they either wore a petticoat ( a female clothe, which they would wrap around breast) or sometimes they bathed in just bra and panty. so anyone could see them in undergarments while passing through the river. even i had seen some females over 35-40 years bathing semi nude( breast were visible). so because of high temperature people used to go to bath in river and females too. some times some poor married females ( from ahiruti) used to come in my aunt home, when she came, most of time she had a baby in her arm and a 7-8 year old boy with her, she had worn a dirty saari (female cloth) and sat on ground and started breast-feeding to her child, she did not care her breast were being exposed. and her 8 year old boy had a half ragged, shabby  shirt and he did not wear anything to cover his genitals. her penis and balls were all visible. my sisters and cousin sisters were also there, so i must say unlike a urban culture and environment, my sisters got a plenty chance to see genitals of boys there, and they enjoyed it too there.
as far as punishment is concerned with nudity, it was a environment there, and it was quite effective too, as punishment consist of not only nudity but with humiliation too, as i told you earlier my aunt, whenever she got angry or  some times jolly, she would grab my penis and balls in front sisters, cousin, mom, anyother.while holding my genitals, she used to say something to my sisters or anyone, which was very embarrassing and painful for me. In addition too, there were some harsh punishment too, spanking with wooden ruler was very painful and worst was chutad-pat-pat.
Once we all went for bathing me, cousins, sisters in river. So my male cousin was almost 10-11 and the river was deep, so he was not asked to bath, but he was stubborn, he did not carry any clothes from home, so he put off all his clothes and became nude. he jumped to river, he was bathing nude with us, his sisters asked him to get out from water but he was not listening, when a sister of his tried to push him out water, he pushed her in water, she got furious, she just grabbed her tiny penis in her hand and she dragged him out of river by pulling his penis. it was very funny for me. when we all reached home, her sisters told what he did( jumped in river nude) then her mother( my aunt) slapped him and made him a nude murga ( nude murga, this punishment was suggested by my elder sister)
For what i watched all, i would say nude punishments were quite effective and i must say pepole who were giving this to anyone, certainly getting sexual pleasure from it. i just wanted to add some other things too, but for last some days i have been very busy so, i am not getting time to write it here, will talk more when i will be free..
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« Reply #114 on: Oct 4th, 2012, 7:59am »
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sharsome now if u r free pl. share more experiences of u with us. but if ur busy ...fell free to take ur time and write a long elaborate version of different nude punishments seen or experience by u...thank u   Smiley
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« Reply #115 on: Oct 6th, 2012, 6:24pm »
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thanks abhi,now days i have been working with a construction company in upper Assam ( a remote state of india near China), i will be free within 3-4 days. i will write it all about soon, and here working in Assam, i have talked with a friend who works with me has told me story of his father, which is not related to nude punishment but it is very releavent to modern era, and it reflects impact of globilzation to a common man. i will share it with u all, u all must be very shocked !
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« Reply #116 on: Oct 20th, 2012, 4:45am »
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sharesome now pl. tell ur stories
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« Reply #117 on: Oct 20th, 2012, 6:26pm »
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on Oct 6th, 2012, 6:24pm, sharsome wrote:
thanks abhi,now days i have been working with a construction company in upper Assam ( a remote state of india near China), i will be free within 3-4 days. i will write it all about soon, and here working in Assam, i have talked with a friend who works with me has told me story of his father, which is not related to nude punishment but it is very releavent to modern era, and it reflects impact of globilzation to a common man. i will share it with u all, u all must be very shocked !

 
Your contributions are always extremely interesting & well-written in a very charming & intriguing style of English, sharsome, which I, for one, find very refreshing. I understand the constraints on you, working in remote areas, & also, like all of us, look forward to your next contribution.
You can move away from the cfnm topic & do globalisation & its impact on India all you want, mate.
 
I'm sure it will be fascinating & a novel insight.  
 
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« Reply #118 on: Oct 20th, 2012, 11:43pm »
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There was a forum about this subject, with hundeds of posts, mostly by Indians, mostly in English, with a few in Hindi, much of it about boys being punished by female teachers at school, at home by sisters and aunts, and similar, with lots of CFNM nudity, though I suspect mostly fetish. But good reading for those who like this subject.
I found it very entertaining and amusing.
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« Reply #119 on: Oct 26th, 2012, 5:41am »
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i want to share 2-3 links. pl read and comment...
http://indianmen.wordpress.com/2006/12/26/indian-teachers/#comments
http://indianmen.wordpress.com/2006/12/19/boys-too-are-sexually-abused/# comments
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« Reply #120 on: Oct 26th, 2012, 8:42am »
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This is a popular Indian forum, with many topics about boys punishments by females in India.
But one has to sift through which ones are real and which ones aren't.
 
http://www.forumjar.com/forums/topic/DO_FEMALE_TEACHER%E2%80%99S_ENJOYIN G_WHILE_CONTROL_AND_PUNISHING_BOYS%3F_%28FOR_FEMALE_TEACHERS_ONLY%29
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« Reply #121 on: Oct 26th, 2012, 9:48am »
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on Oct 26th, 2012, 8:42am, Bobby Bare wrote:
This is a popular Indian forum, with many topics about boys punishments by females in India.
But one has to sift through which ones are real and which ones aren't.
 
http://www.forumjar.com/forums/topic/DO_FEMALE_TEACHER%E2%80%99S_ENJOYIN G_WHILE_CONTROL_AND_PUNISHING_BOYS%3F_%28FOR_FEMALE_TEACHERS_ONLY%29

bobby ..this forumjar is based on complete fantasy. there are lots of fantasy based stories on this shubject written in English, Hindi and other languages. there may be some of them real but mostly not. but its fun to read.
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« Reply #122 on: Oct 26th, 2012, 3:50pm »
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hi, thanks abhi for sharing................ there is a famous english proverb....." truth is stranger than fiction " so i beleive if anyone ever had had a weired experience,than  it must be veruy unique and unpredictable. otherwise many pepole just lie for entertainment. but who had faced it seldom dare to write or speak about it. i was little unwell so i could not write anymore....but i shall !!
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on Oct 26th, 2012, 3:50pm, sharsome wrote:
hi, thanks abhi for sharing................ there is a famous english proverb....." truth is stranger than fiction " so i beleive if anyone ever had had a weired experience,than  it must be veruy unique and unpredictable. otherwise many pepole just lie for entertainment. but who had faced it seldom dare to write or speak about it. i was little unwell so i could not write anymore....but i shall !!

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« Reply #124 on: Nov 11th, 2012, 1:53am »
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its not topic related but i am re posting my life experience ...sorry  
 India is a male dominated country. Men mostly do outside work but now a day’s things are changing due to globalisation. But still most of the women are housewife and they are in charge of the home economics and management.  As a male dominated world nobody cares for boys nudity, they think it’s natural for boys to have less shame..It’s the women who deserve modesty.. Women have to act with more dignity women cannot use bad language women cannot wear reviling clothes etc.  But for boys you are free in case of nudity.  
In India, most of the boys stay nude and bath naked by their parents up to the age 12. Up to that age they are mostly bathed by their mothers or other female members (guardians) of the family. In some cases they are allowed to bath by themselves but mothers inspect them while they are bathing and instruct them like “make yourself properly clean” “dry your hair properly if you don’t want to catch a cold” “rub oil properly and sit in the sunlight”” always wear clean underwear dear”  etc.
Up to age 9 or 10 female guardians has complete authority to strip them naked or order them to be naked ,rub oil on their body make them stand them in the sunlight naked and bathed them and make them dry. Even boys are not allowed to choose what they will wear, guardians select what they will wear and help then to get dressed. As I am said in my previous posts boys do not have much private space and no private rooms they have less privacy and they are accustomed of it. Most of the homes have open bathroom. Because of no private room that have to change in front of others. Women used to say “what?  Are you a girl? Why such shame? Go take your clothes off and let me wash you. Go bath in this open place why so shame and do not act like a girl”
I personally seen and bathed naked or observed naked bathing up to 12.  There was nothing sexual in it.  I was accustomed to do it.  Time i came back from school( up to 12) in front of mom I striped completely naked in the living room then she used to give me usual clothes.   Any family members like my aunt grandmother presence did not bother me. We both had a bathroom and an open backyard place to bath. Mother used to supervise me during bathing and instruct me. As I did not have any private room I had to change naked in front of them or they helped me to change.  I born in 85 and up to 1997 it was the story. But this time limit may change. My best friend told me he was bathed naked changed up to 14 in front of their mother and aunts. Some families are conservative they only allow nudity up to 9-10y. Urban big city boys (mostly not all) are conservative and they get early privacy (9 y). Big town boys like me get privacy from 13 to 15. But in case of small town and in villages limit may vary up to 17-18. Village boys are used to skinny dip up to 18 – 19 in ponds and rivers and do not care being seen. They even play naked and stay naked in homes.
My aunt always up to i was 6 asked me whether I washed my penis properly during bathing or not?  
When I was 8-9 my parents were out of the town so I had to stay at my aunt house. One night i drank water too much and wet the bed. We all male cousins were slipping in the same bed. It’s around 12 o’clock. My aunt came and took all my clothes off and made me completely naked. She did not give me ant clothes. So i had to sleep naked. Next Morning i was wake up to see all my male and female cousins were smiling at my nudity. I was embarrassed. My aunt told me that she had to wash my pants and after that few hours I get my clothes back. BHT THERE IS NO CHILD ABUSE OR SEXTUALITY INVOLVED IN ANY THIS CASES. IT’S NORNAL FOR FEMALES TO TAKE CARE OF THEIR CHILDREN. NO FEMALE GURDIAN DID ANY ABUSE AND THEY DO NOT WANT TO BRING HARM TO THE BOYS.  THIS IS NORMAL CARE LOVE AND SYMPATHY WHAT MOTHERS SISTERS AND AUNTS SHOW TO RAISE THEM PROPERLY.
Once i was in my friend house (female) to chat with them. She was 20 at that time.  She had a 13 year old bother. While we were chatting her brother started to bother him by pulling her hair etc. Her brother was saying “I, know more  ...I am better ....I am good”. She got little annoyed and said” yes yes  you are good and better that’s why mama has to strip you and have to give you a bath. You cannot bath yourself and call yourself a big boy. And what about your dress? Mother and i have to make you dress. You still do not have the shame and you walk around naked in front of me and mummy. Huff still you strip naked in front of your big sister and call yourself big boy?”She spoke with love not rudely.  So his family allow him to be naked up to 15.
Indian girls are accustomed of seeing day to day nudity. As a child they see their bothers are bathed nude by mother...if she is a elder sister she have to do that job for younger brother as a mother or aunt she have to perform that thing again .and outdoor nudity is also present as men pee outside, most of the boys bath outside their home naked, river pond boys bathing naked, boys in villages playing naked or staying naked at home, naked beggars etc. So they do not care very much. On the other hand boys don’t get much female nudity.
While bathing naked nude in backyard I was seen by women and girls couple of times. I personally saw boys bathed naked by their mother and helped him to dress, saw boy skinny dipping(12-16) in front of females in ponds and rivers and also saw boys(13 to14) bathing fully naked with their mother and sisters who were clothed and while bathing boy was splashing water towards their mother and sisters and having fun. Also saw boys playing totally naked in the open fields and running around naked in village roads (12 to 14y) they did not care if females saw them. These incidents were from villages.
One thing i have to mention after 12 or 14 there is no complete nudity but during bathing and after bathing like you guys wear towel Indian boys wear GAMCHA( transparent piece of cloth )(Google it to know more). So female member clearly see everything as it is see through when light passes. So boys are still naked. A recent incident was – i was with my friend in his rental house. He was in shower. His landlord (women) called him so he wrapped a GAMCHA around and meet her. His penis is easily visible.  Like that he was standing in front of his landlord and her daughter (20y). My friend is 26. I asked i that why you were like that? He said he doesn’t care. He has less modesty. So you get complete nudity up to 14 15y and partial nudity has no age limit. India is the best CFNM place because girls don’t get naked.
But one thing India is a big country with cultural differences. For some people they have never seen or experience this kind of things. Some of my friends never experience such things. Most Urban big city boys do not have this kind experience. And if you only visit big cities you do not get the clear picture. To experience more you have to travel around the country and have to be lots of friends to get their experience.  
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« Reply #125 on: Nov 11th, 2012, 12:45pm »
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well said, abhi ! i know it very well, but u know what, if anybody have have such experiences, they normally try to forget it instead of write or speak. i am sure if u could get experience of 100 pepole, it would be different !
sorry abhi, till today i did not reply your questions as i was a bit bussy and second i was a little relectuant to write further about bcoz.. what i had experienced and what i think about it......if i need to write i have to write a lot, so i did not write but i must say 1 thing WHAT ALL I HAVE READ ON WEBSITES, LIKE SPANKING, NUDE PUNISHMENTS i found weired,  boz either pepole talk about that the were forced to strip and then get 10 times spanking ......further nothing happened ! when i was in my aunt's village as i told my male cousin would get nude punishment and his sister's naturally used to comment on his penis or balls bcoz they were allowed and it was natural latter with me i was treated like my male cousin......so  when my own sisters saw me nude and getting punished they commented on me and teased me so this is also a natural thing bcoz we all were of age between 12-18 ( me, my cousin brother, sisters and female cousins).  abhi, more then 11-12 years had been passed away since, so i need to recollect my all memorey but either today or tomorrow i will write about it !
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« Reply #126 on: Nov 18th, 2012, 7:39pm »
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Before  telling further, I would like to tell that in my aunt’s
village it was such a environment that you can say it CFNM  but  there
I had seen some nudity of females , even including my female cousins
and my sisters  and you now when you are living such a environment you
are least bother about nudity  but I must say I felt quite exploited
there because I had never seen such things before !
Second, I think if I did not had a male cousin there( in village) then
I should not have faced some extreme weired  incidents ! as I told you
I had a male cousin of age 11 and he was very accustomed to the
extreme rural  environment, and he had been never bothered about his
nudity or for any nude punishment !  so I was 2 year elder then him
and I was 13 at time, but my aunt and mom and uncle had considered
both same ! so I had to face what was share of my male cousin ! my
aunt and neighbouring women were very rude and my aunt was quite
furious !
So as I told you when I reached there, I had found a strange
environment, where I and my cousin had to perform some task as we were
told, in village everybody used to sleep at 8 pm and wake up at 6 am.
So we were supposed to adopt the change , after waking up we were
supposed to a orchid of mango, for protecting from theief, ( at night
there were two men used to sleep there, and in morning when we ( me
and my cousin) reached at orchid, they both man returns back to their
home and we would stay there for 3 hours after they both man come back
to orchid and then they would send us back to home, after reaching
home we have all the day to play expect feeding cow’s and doing some
little work’s in field (when we were asked )……anyway as I told earlier
after reaching village, one day when we went to orchid and then we
left to a river at that day, the villagere’s plucked some mangoes and
then we both(me and my cousin) were punished nude, and it was my first
experience of nude punishment (my male cousin already had)….so my
sister’s and cousin’s saw me nude there and teased me a bit ! later as
day passed they became more habitual  of this kind of things,
My aunt had a habbit of grabbing  my ( and my male cousin)genitals  in
her hands. If she asked some work to me and I did not perform or
done, then she used to grab my penis or balls over my clothes and she
would scold me,  so sometimes when she did this in front my cousins,
sisters and mom, definitely I felt embarrassed
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As one month has passed, sometimes, not only I and my male cousin got
some fights but my sister and female cousins too. Because they all
were of same age, so during some fights( mostly friendly) they started
pulling up each other’s skirt or they used to try to pull down salwar
( a kind of female trouser) and sometimes .when they quarrel with each
other they tried to up skirt  or pull down each other’s clothes to do
embarrassed   each other. When they did it in front me and my cousin
we both got  a chance to see panty of my sister and my female cousins
as they either  pulled down each other’s salwar( trouser) or  lifted
up skirt of  each other ,my female cousins were living in rural
environment , so they used to wear a panty which was similar to a male
underwear, covering all butts and parts, and other side my both
sisters used to wear a real female panty, which was quite tiny and did
not cover all parts, so whenever they ( my female cousins and
sisters), used to tease each other( mostly for fun excitement) they
would just pull down each other’s clothes, my both sister’s mostly
used to wear skirt and sometimes my female cousins too, so when my
female cousin tease my sister/sister’s, she tried to either pull down
her skirt or tried to lift up her skirt and same thing my sister tried
to do with female cousins, so during their fights me and my male
cousin could easily see panty of their and as my sisters used to wear
a tiny panty, we were able to see her  half nude butts and oftenely it was embarrassing for them.
Anyway, further as  I stayed long in village, and saw this all I became little habitual of situation,  
So one  after noon we all were in near by orchid, and my sister & cousin sisters were playing  
A chikka ( a game of girls in village),and I was feeling bored there, I had asked to my male cousin
To play some game, so he suggested gulli danda ( a game for boys), in which a boy hit a little wooden  
Stick with a long wooden stick…….but soon I got bored and I wanted to play with my sisters but they
Did not let me play with them, I got bored & frustrated, I started disturbing them, they warned me  
But I was getting fun to disturbing them, meanwhile, I  hit and shoved  my wooden stick in butt  
Of my sister, and I ran  off like a hell, she chased me but  she did not catch me, later in evening
When I reached home, I thought , aunt or mom would punish me but it did not happen, anyway so
I was relaxed, later in evening my sisters and cousin were on the roof, and in home there were some  
Neighbouring female were doing some work, so I did a mistake, I went to the roof, where my sister’s  
Were there, as I reached, one of my sister( whom I had hit on her butt by stick) and cousin sister had  
Caught me, they pushed me on floor of roof, and the forcefully pulled off my trouser  & undearwear,
Within 2 minute, I was nude in a open place ( on the roof), they all were laughing as soon as I  
Ran to get my cloth back, my sister suddenely threw it to ground, so I was compled to stay nude on  
Roof, as I could not go down from stairs as there were several neighbouring female were there, so  
I stayed nude on roof, hiding my genitals,  after some times, they ( my sister & cousins) discussed something,  and they tried to drag me, upstairs from roof, but I resisted, then one of my sister
Has grabbed my balls and dragged me down, ( as I felt pain, so I did not resisted), and they took me  
Down from roof, when I reached there, I was nude in front many neighbouring female. Mom and aunt, and one of my sister had grabbed my balls in her hand, so I was totally ashamed, and they all were perplexed, of what suddenely happened. Meanwhile, one of female, who saw my sister holding my balls, said in rural funny language , pelhar meezet heain, ( she said, that she is squeezing  my balls hard) and  
All the other ladies commented on this, and they ( my cousin & sisters) told all of them why they r doing this to me, after some time they allowed me to go and I had changed my clothes, this was  
The first time when I saw my own sisters as furious as my female cousins were there . I will tell a little more about……...........
 
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« Reply #127 on: Dec 10th, 2012, 1:45am »
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sharsome continue with your story pl.
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this is not related to the topic but i am mentioning here. its a real story told by my friend.
he told me(i am not his school friend) that when he was in class 11,  the school internal exam questions were very hard. one of his friends preparation for that exam was very poor. so his friend had to cheat in the exam and  he wrote down notes from books in small pages and took them in the exam. after 2 successful days  he was caught by his school teacher. teacher was a beautiful young lady of 26 to 27. she searched him and got all notes from his pocket and took them away. so his exam was a disaster. he was so angry he planned to play a dirty trick with his teacher. as you know Indian boys  grow up in CFNM situations they are less modest.next exam was the last one and he knew that teacher would caught him again. so he planned not to bring any cheats. that very day he did not wear his underwear. he made two big hole in his pocket of his trouser. he dressed like that way and went to the exam. while in exam that madam cane to him to check him whether today also he brought any cheats. madam checked him and while she put her hand in his pocket her hand directly reached to his penis and madam touched his penis. madam was so ashamed and out her hand from his pocket. without saying a word red faced she walked away. the boy had a smirk in his face and he had his revenge. madam also knew it was his dirty prank.
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in india male nudity is not uncommon till early teens.i myself used to be naked at home till i was 15yrs.although girls are never nude even after 4-5.
I remember clearly after returning from school i used to take of all my clothes and give it for washing to my maid and used to stay naked till her washing was done as i had to shower after her work was through.I used to be naked in front of my mom and maid daily .
 
In villages young boys skinni dipping is also common sight especially in summer.The ladies do their washing while their boys bath in the same water naked in view of girls and woman of ages 6-60.When i had been to my native place(was around 14) i myself went for a nude swim in the local pond in view of many girls and women ,where noone even looks twice as male nudity is common.however in cities you wont see such sights,although for most boys home nudity is common till 12 yrs which for some goes till 15 or 16,depending on how the devlop.my mon instructed me not no stay nude after 15 when my hair started to devlop,although she still saw me nude ocassionally till i was 16 then it stopped gradually.
however most boys are embarrased to be nude infront of relatives(atleast i was)
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aks,  tell us more about your cfnm experience  Smiley
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I think, in India, not only  nude punishment is very common but also teen boys  many times get molested by  adult male or female, I live in west Bengal  in India, when I was  12-13 years old, I was living in a  chaal ( a kind of slums ) so environment was  very dirty and  filthy. I got nude spanking many time during my  childhood, I had tow elder sisters, once when I was around 12-13 , I got some infection near my genitals and I  had been itching near my genitals and thighs, my sisters  who saw this had complained this to mom, mom warned me not to rub my genital in front sisters otherwise she would punish me nude  ( she thought I was masturbating ) but I really felt itch near my genital , so I could not control, when my sisters again saw this, then mom took me to a quack ( a kind of unskilled doctor ) , quack was familiar to my family and was a bastard person who had many times molested many girls and  females, when I reached to his clinic, along with my mom & 2 sisters, he asked me to undress , reluctantly, I undress, but I didn’t want to remove my underwear , but then quack forcefully took off my underwear making me nude, he then checked for any disease but soon he said to mom, he has no disease, he  was itching  his genitals willingly, mom got angry, but the quack said, now no need to worry I punish him, by saying this he grabbed my penis in his hand, I felt weird, and I tried to rescue my penis from his hands, but I could  help myself, then he asked my sisters to count up to  20 by 1.2.3 .4 as he is going to tug   and yank my penis 20 times as a punishment, my sisters smiled and they both started counting 1.2.3 and  quack was tugging my penis hard on each  counting, it was causing a real pain to me, and I tried to run away but he had grabbed my penis badly, after 20 count  he left me.
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« Reply #132 on: Oct 3rd, 2013, 10:55am »
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When I was 14, pre air conditioning days, I wore brief style bathing suits around the house. One day my mother notices that I had big, red, leathery splotches on my thighs and groin. Upon examination my balls were also affected. It had come on sudden and I had not noticed it although it itched a bit. My mother got upset and made a BIG deal out of it. She was into health and home remedies and had me use all sorts of concoction to heal it.  
  She also would have me show my ailments to her concerned customers in her beauty shop to get their opinions. Lots of her customers, I knew them all, got to see me nude as it is impossible to raise your leg with your pants around your ankles. I got use to it as all were concerned and polite and after a while got to enjoy their attention. There were any a few bad moments. One time a customer suggested that I was putting my penis in strange locations. Another time a customer had me turn my back to my mother and another customer and proceeded to squeeze me out. One time was humiliating as a customer held my erection and proceeded to compare how I was circumcised compared to her son or nephew. Made it like my penis was deformed.  
 I finally got to see a doctor in the fall who determined it was RING WORM. Took over a year to come up with the right medicine to cure it as it had gotten serious. No one ever made fun or commented on my nudity so I was comfortable with them. It was like a medical setting. All were mature women except for one time I was nude in the presence of a girl my age. That turned out to be a pleasant visual experience for me and I hope for her also.  
  That reinforced my mothers opinion concerning the health benefits of sunshine and nudity. She thought my bathing suit or unhealthy swimming water was the cause.  LEO C
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« Reply #133 on: Oct 4th, 2013, 4:00am »
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Hi, leo-c , I can guess, you were suffering from wring worm and it would have been very obvious to see it on your penis or foreskin, but in my case, it was a infection, which you can't see through your eyes, so my mom and sister's thought, i am pretending and i was trying to masturbate, and the quack who checked my disease too k full advantage of my problem and situation, he brutally molested my penis and eventually he spanked me nude, at that time i was so scared of him, he almost ripped me off totally. even when i was returning back to home, whole way my sister's teased me by asking, how is your penis ? is it itching or paining ? mom was just smiling when they were asking this and i felt more embarrassed, for what he did to me in front all.
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« Reply #134 on: Oct 5th, 2013, 1:51am »
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It is common.
 
I am an American and on an exchange lived with a family in south India when 16-17. It was a moderately wealthy family with two boys, one my own age and one 14. They had three sisters, two older than I. From the very start there were whispers and rumors about nude punishment from the brothers and among the other boys at our private school. More than a hint that I could easily be included in it and...here's the interesting thing. Both the brothers spoke about the prospect of nude punishment in front of the females with a wild look in their eyes, as if...and this I found hard to believe coming from a Texas Baptist family...as if they were excited by the prospect.
 
Once when here was a big family gathering the younger brother Prakesh had gotten into a real scrap with a servant boy in the courtyard. Obviously there was some history- his mother rounded on him fast. I was actually in the family room talking to the girls and female cousins when the mother, holding him by the ear, instructed him to quickly pull down his shorts and underwear! He begged to be spared this public humiliation, said he was sorry, pleaded to be punished in his room, started crying- all the while looking over his shoulder at the smirking females. She started slapping him on his bottom. She told him she would keep him "bare nude" for a week if he didn't comply. Finally he slowly lowered his shorts to his ankles and she whisked his underpants down in one cruel intervention. He was nude from the waist. I watched hypnotised as she then very efficiently pulled his T-shirt over his head.  
 
The 14 year old was then bare as a board, to my absolute astonishment. The girls were goggle-eyed.
 
She marched him into the corridor and forced him to stand, hands behind his back, eyes looking straight ahead- she was firm on both these instructions. But if  I was glued to the action that was nothing compared to the half dozen teenage girls. Their eyes were ablaze and absolutely fixated and I regret to say- because I liked the kid, he was a fun companion- they got to see everything.
 
I remember his prick was well-developed, brown with a reddish head, the foreskin bunched up behind. He had a big burst of hair and his balls hung somewhat low. One lower than the other. What I mean is that the girls had plenty to look at. When the mother had taken off to look after the kitchen I couldn't help notice the prurient expression on the girls' faces as they switched their looks from their brother/cousin standing hapless in the hall to me, as if to say we can imagine what you've got down there!
 
Several things happened that afternoon. First as he was 14 he soon got an erection. I noticed a fresh flurry of whispering and giggling among the females and looked over my shoulder to see Prakesh's brown-red penis standing parallel to the floor. That sent their eyes really wild and rutish. I made me blush as much as it did him because they seemed to be looking at me as if to say, bet that happens to you too! Next time I looked it was pointing to the ceiling at a very stubborn 45 degrees. Girls were angling to get a full view and elbowing one another as the whispered and giggled.
 
They then enjoyed catching my eye.
 
Second the female servants in their saris quickly appeared, moving up and down the corridor and in one case kneeling to do polishing right in front of the boy. I knew enough about India to know what a horror it was for a Brahmin adolescent to be humiliated like this in front of low caste servants.
 
The punishment lasted an hour and the boy was marched to his room after that and told to stay there.
 
I slipped away when I could and quietly opened his bedroom door. He was still stark naked and seated on a chair. He was vigorously masturbating. He didn't even stop at the sight of me but gestured for me to close the door. In a few more seconds he ejaculated, clearly enormously stimulated by the exposure in the corridor in front of the females.
 
Later that evening one of the cousins boldly asked me if American boys without any clothes looked the same as Indian. Her eyes were ablaze and she darted glances at my fly as she talked. Two others quickly joined us and excitedly asked if I would retreat to a bedroom and strip for them. "We want very much to see American penis," was the plea. I retreated, blushing like a fire hydrant.
 
It was another month before the family was familiar enough with me to subject me to the same punishment. Happy to share this if there is any interest.
 
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Re: Nude punishment of boys in India
« Reply #135 on: Oct 5th, 2013, 3:15am »
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Aaron, you got my attention ....pl continue  Smiley
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« Reply #136 on: Oct 5th, 2013, 4:41am »
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Well, here goes.
 
Once when I returned from an excursion there was clear tension in the household and I gradually learnt from the two brothers what had happened. While I was away the 17 year old, called Modi, had stayed out at cricket for an extra hour despite a clear expectation he would return on time to see his visiting grandparents. His mother had worked herself up into a strident fury. She got even angrier, given that the old folk had had to leave without seeing their grandson. For their part the girls were just about hopping with excitement, sensing that the ultimate punishment would be exacted from their older brother when he deigned to come home. And...here was the extremely prurient element: his sisters (and two visiting cousins) had not seen him subject to full nude punishment for the better part of a year. Their lust was very apparent, or at least that was Prakesh's assessment.  
 
His brother returned and his mother's rage erupted. After the frantic lecture, she instructed him to go to his bedroom and remove all his clothing. "Every last stitch," was her very explicit instruction. He registered loud protest but she threatened him with confiscation of all clothes for an indefinite time. He could be forced to live in the house with them all "stripped to the buff"! There was an audible gasp from the girls at this threat. He was tall, well-proportioned and good looking and this must have fed the girls' excitement.
 
There was, interestingly, no expectation that in the end he would defy the matriarch's wishes. He slouched off.
 
Within five minutes she had collected him- naked as a jay- from his bedroom and marched him by the ear to the corridor and installed him where his brother had been positioned. "Behave like a jolly little boy, and be punished like a jolly little boy," she declared as she looked him up and down. Unlike his brother, though, he was every inch a young man. I had caught glimpses, in the change room at school and the bathroom at home, of an elegant long uncircumcised penis,with a tapered prepuce- a penis that seemed to flop forward and reach half way to his knees.(As I will later reveal, I had reason for noting the size). And very droopy testicles with an uncanny resemblance to his brother's, in that one- the left one, I think- hung much lower than the other.
 
I could understand how the girls must have craned their necks but both boys later confirmed it was much worse. The mother swept out of the house on a social assignment after telling him he was not to move an inch and Modi was completely abandoned to the girls' power.
 
Without the mother present they were able to surround him in a semi-circle and tease him every which way. They invited the maids to have a good look at the big boy without any clothes- "wearing his birthday suit", his oldest sister put it. There was a lot of pointing and giggling, especially at the funny testicles. Before long he had sported a long, slightly curved erection. Like his brother's too- it was mahogany with a red glans. The teasing got merciless.
 
To have maids pointing and giggling must have been especially shaming.
 
When I got home the affair was over and I had the brothers fill in all the details late that night, in Modi's bedroom, the rest of the house asleep.  
 
The two boys were in a state of intense arousal. They talked about the excited stares of the 19 year old sister, about the wide-eyed looks of the cousins, about the gruelling moments when Modi's penis first started stretching...and suddenly they were slithering out of pyjamas, standing stark naked looking into a ceiling-high mirror and fingering erections, unconcerned about my presence.  
 
Modi started talking about how, on forced display like that, he couldn't stop his penis getting stiffer and stiffer. He asked Prakesh whether he thought they liked the size? The shape, that curve? The color? And his brother had said they had all found them very exciting- you could tell from their expressions and their breathing, he said. He said he had overheard one cousin discussing Modi's big balls.  
 
And what about those maids? The older one, who used to spank them when they were young? The young one who had just been recruited to the household and would certainly not have seen a nude Brahmin youth before? Prakesh agreed all this would have been very agreeable to these two maids and the others.
 
Through all of this the boys were stroking themselves more and more furiously.
 
To my amazement I saw the two brothers explode. Each of their ropes of sperm reached the glass of the mirror.
 
In our subsequent talk it was clear that Modi was interested in full nude punishment coming his way again. "It was a wonderful feeling," he told me. And his younger brother agreed that being forced to shed all your clothes in front of females was a very special and strangely thrilling experience. And getting an erection was an important part of it.
 
For my part I was enormously stimulated and yet...I had private reasons to be very shy.
 
Still there were occasional hints from the sisters that I might receive similar treatment. A fair bit of teasing and without a doubt a keen interest in seeing a white boy stripped. This frightened me.
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« Reply #137 on: Oct 7th, 2013, 2:57am »
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Aaron,  nice experience.....have more?
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« Reply #138 on: Oct 7th, 2013, 6:58pm »
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I was born in India, though I've lived abroad for most of my life I can totally relate to this circumstance.
 
It's absolutely right what she says. Male nudity, even when females are basking in the humiliation, is hardly a big deal. I've heard of several instances of it occurring as if it's no big deal. I only had one instance of cfnm with myself, it was perpetrated by my parents and ended with my sister wildly laughing at my penis. Incredibly embarrassing.... but I'm pretty sure my sister has forgotten it as the years have gone by.  
 
Nude punishment being inflicted upon boys and not girls is not exclusive to India. Here's a story from Experience Project, where the girl is the sole person at fault but ultimately ends up having the boys stripped the boys naked.
 
Hi, I'm Clair, I love forcing people to be naked,
I'm the eldest of 4 siblings and our parents are away a lot so we usually have the place to ourselves. Of course, being the eldest I have authority over my siblings and have to discipline them from time to time.
 
One time in the evening, Jon and Joe and Katie were playing in mine and Katie's Bed room. I left to get myself a snack from the kitchen and when I got back Jon and Joe were fighting and I had to split them up. I warned them that they'd better behave or else. I went back to my laptop and went on facebook or something. About half an hour later, Katie started to poke and annoy the other two just to get a response I suppose. I pretended not to notice. Before long the three of them were in a fight. Again I had to split them up. I told Katie to go to her bed and the two boys stand next to each other by the wall. I told them that for a punishment the to boys should take there clothes off and put them under my bed until they learn to play nicely. "What about Katie!?" they said "she started it!". I told them I didn't want to hear there excuses and to do as they were told. Sure enough they did, and I told them to carry on playing nicely, Katie too.
They didn't fight again that night, Jon and Joe were probably too embarrassed of what there next punishment might be and I noticed Kate couldn't stop glancing at their willies, lol,

 
And here's a comment from that same story:
That was excellent. I love the fact that you punished the boys and had them strip, but not Katie. It is always the boys fault and they are the ones who should be punished. I hope you keep up with what you started. I applaud you.
 
taken from: http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Love-Forced-Nudity/2165981
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« Reply #139 on: Nov 3rd, 2013, 4:02am »
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I am from a undevlobed urban village.now i am 17 near 18.But til now i have to get nude punisment at our yeard infront of my sisters,cousins,aunties and maids.some time my sisters nd cousins neibour womens also watch and loughed and tease me when i stand or marching at yeard nude at the penisment time.
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« Reply #140 on: Nov 16th, 2013, 6:27pm »
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on Jan 15th, 2009, 8:03pm, Allan_C. wrote:
I came across this on another board. No idea if it is true, but it sounds like it could be, though I have been to India many times and seldom heard of it. Does anyone know?
 
by a poster named Sajita:
 
"David, you are so right. I’m a 16 year old Indian girl (not the native American kind). The adults in my family are immigrants to the U.S. from India. It is very common for Indian parents to punish their boys by making them stand in a state of total nudity holding their ears with their hands or holding their hands clasped behind their heads. My family still continue that tradition in this country. I’ve never been punished in that way, because it’s not considered appropriate in most parts of India to subject girls to nudity as punishment (or for any other reason, for that matter), but I’ve often witnessed my brothers and male cousins being made to stand in a state of total nudity holding their ears with their hands for a half-hour to an hour, depending on the gravity of the boys’ offense. However, whenever my female cousins and I approach the boys while they’re being punished, they swiftly shift their hands from ears to genitals! But the parents usually quickly make the boys place their hands back on their ears, even as we girls gawk at them. Female humiliation during the boys’ punishments is definitely very intentional in Indian culture, and it’s sure not easy for the boys, but nonetheless, it is widely considered to be very effective in improving boys’ behaviour in our culture. After a few moments, the parents will make us girls leave the boys alone, but we girls usually bug the boys 3 or 4 times like that during a typical punishment period. It may sound like we girls are little teasing brats, but in our culture, it’s actually considered to be our family duty to do this, regardless of how much we enjoy seeing the boy nudity, which we certainly do! Meanwhile, the adults in our culture continually drill modesty into the girls’ heads."
 
then later she posts again:
 
"In response to David T and Woody:
 
I am surprised to learn that some parents in America used to spank boys until they reached age 12. I too would have guessed they would have stopped those “bare butt” spankings at about age 8. I’m sure many of those older boys were terribly embarrassed and I feel very badly for them. In Indian culture, even though the boys are usually very humiliated by the nude punishments, at least they get over it quickly because it’s so widely accepted as a form of boy punishment (and girl duty), and the boys know that they are not alone by any means, because ALL the boys around them must face the same nudity on a regular basis.
 
Female modesty is so sacred in our culture that even when a mother or guardian is changing the diaper of even the youngest of baby girls, he/she keeps a small sheet over the baby girl to shield her genital region from male eyes. On the other hand, most of the time baby boys get their diapers changed right out in the open, almost as if they were the subject of a public exhibition. The sacredness of the female genitals in Indian culture is derived from the simple fact that females give birth, and so the female genital region is highly revered, and so is never to be casually displayed in front of males. Female genitals have almost God-like qualities in India. And conversely, males, according to Indian culture, simply have no reason to have that degree of modesty.
 
Boys in India are generally subjected to this nude punishment up through age 12 or 13. I’m sure this is very surprising to most Americans, but this is based on the general consensus that boys have very “boyish” anatomies up through age 12 or 13, despite the fact that a small minority of boys’ genitals are already quite well-developed by that age. Parents simply don’t make exceptions for these well-developed boys – they just go ahead and punish them nude too. As you can easily imagine, these “minority” cases are especially interesting and pleasurable to us girls! And it’s often especially humiliating for those boys too.
 
The girls’ participation duty in the boys’ humiliating punishments in Indian culture is tied to the fact that the Indian girls are naturally raised with many more domestic attitudes and skills than boys, and so the girls’ nurturing abilities/duties fit right into the raising of boys (and younger sisters too). In Indian culture, it is the girls’ duty to assist the parents in the rearing of brothers and sisters and often of cousins too, and as with many things in life, with duties often come certain privileges too. The girls’ privilege to view the boys nude is a very nice benefit of bearing more responsibility for helping to rear siblings than boys have. And so the boys can only WISH they could view the girls’ nude bodies the same way. I guess that’s life, in India in particular. But now I know that at times, some situations are similar in America, as so many have reported here on this forum.
 
Also, the reason why Indian boys receive more frequent punishments and harsher punishments than Indian girls is similar to the above logic. Indian girls are naturally more disciplined and compliant than boys and usually have a lot less “natural unharnessed energy” than boys too. Boys need the tough punishments to mold them into conforming men who will support their families, treat females with respect only, and generally be a contributing asset to Indian society, not a public menace.
 
Occasionally, even an Indian boy in the age range of 14 through 17 will be given this nude punishment – with pubic hair on display and everything! This doesn’t occur very often, but I have seen it once and heard of it a few more times. It is extraordinarily embarrassing and humiliating to the poor boys who undergo it, because teen boys want very much to be respected and treated as adults, but occasionally when a teen boy displays very “boyish” behavior, a parent will punish him AS A BOY, which of course means nude punishment, just like for a younger boy. It sends the boy the painfully clear message that “If you insist on acting like a little boy, you will be TREATED like one!”
 
The one time I saw a 16 year old boy undergo a nude punishment, I was at my girlfriend’s house, and her brother had pushed and pushed her mom until her mom finally forced the nude punishment on him. Usually when an older boy is being punished nude like this, anyone outside the family is sent out of the house. But once in a while, as was the case when I witnessed it, the mom will get so aggravated with the teen boy that she won’t even bother to consider if any outsiders are in the house, she’ll strip her son right then and there, and make him stand with hands on ears or behind his head. I could have taken advantage of that situation much more than I did, because his mom didn’t care at all if I saw him nude. But because I liked the boy and didn’t want to face the embarrassment and awkwardness of seeing him later on, I didn’t gawk at him, but instead I went outside the house on my own. However, I got to confess I did sneak a pretty good peak at his genitals right before I slipped outside, because my natural curiosity got the best of me and I guess I just couldn’t let that very rare opportunity slip by without seeing something! He had quite a mature genital package with a good set of pubic hair. That was definitely a thrilling moment for me!"
 
This was from this website:
 
http://www.voy.com/217785/138.html
 

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« Reply #141 on: Nov 16th, 2013, 6:59pm »
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hi darling, I am 40 years old now,i come from india, but now I live in leeds and I have been here for a long time. I spentmy childhood and teenage years in India. yes it is true that there is a tradition that when boys misbehave they are stripped in front of every one around. Actually I was the only son in the family, I had 3 older sisters and when I misbehaved as a punishment I was stripped completely naked  and my sisters gladly watched and passed comments about my penis.  
 
We were highly religious and traditional but in our family, and I know that there are other families like this is in india, but any way, I shall be talking about my family, as I said, I was the only son and I had 3 elder sisters and I was very much loved by them and mother, father was most of times away at work, but, any way,  going in the bath room, especially in the mornings to get ready for school, we(my sisters and me) often saw each other naked, no one of us never minded if we were naked in front of each other or if one of us saw another one of us naked, no body ever complained and sometimes we also used to joke over this, like one of my sisters used to note an erection of my penis and would say "look he has an erection" or one of my sisters would say "sister your tits grew from last year" or even touch jokingly and still no body ever complained. When I was young, I never gave attention to such a thing but growing up, I started to realize the heaven that was around me. In fact at my early teenage, lets say about 14, i already knew everything about girls things, etc, while other boys hardly knew, I saw naked girls every day, so its not true that girls private parts are never exposed to males in india.
 
In those days (1970s) all my sisters had hair on their pussies, and I used to look attentively at their naked bodies in the morning, while they looked at my penis and they could touch it as well, I also touched their pussies at times, once we were all naked in the bathroom in the morning, when I couldn't resist any more and my penis erected, I was about 14, it was my oldest sister, who at the time was 17, who first noticed it, and she took my penis in her hands and started to explain to the 2 other sisters, of 16 and of 15, what happens to boys when penis erects, I remember that on that day it was wonderful all my sisters touched my penis and wanted to feel it, as i said i was very lucky since no other boy in the family and so the only penis my sisters could see was mine.
 
This happened almost every morning my penis erected and there was always a sister touching it, each time a sister went to bathroom, I was always there and saw her, and her naked body,1 of my sisters  slept in my bedroom, when i saw her with pygamas I always put her pygamas trousers down, she always liked it, each time she changed clothes I always saw her, sometimes I also touched her pussy and tits, while she touched and sometimes grabbed my penis and also with my other 2 sisters we played these nasty jokes on each other, like touching or grabbing each others privates and we always considered it childhood games or childhood stupidity or fun or games and as a child I was a very naughty child and I was punished by nudity in front of sisters and mother while they passed comments on my penis and sometimes touching it too, by time I got used to it and sometimes I also enjoyed it and sometimes I also did things on purpose to get this punishment, if eevry one is acting not against his or her will, then I see nothing wrong in it, any way, we were still children or tennagers, and it was nice to see each other naked, between me and my sisters, but was is not true is that an indian girl's private parts is never exposed to males, no its not true because I have seen my sisters naked many times and sometimes indian girls are also punished with nudity, if you don't believe it, just read this article taken from the times of india: http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2005-05-13/india/27857862_1_ palli-girl-boy ..... and in india many parents still arrange their daughters marriage, so unfortunately it is not true that females are so much respected in india as described in your article.
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« Reply #142 on: Dec 14th, 2013, 7:49pm »
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Many things posted here are true.
Now I belive.
Look why...
 
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« Reply #143 on: Jan 6th, 2014, 12:48pm »
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I am an indian guy. I , too want to relate an incident when two boys were punished and shamed in school for some mischief by being stripped by female teachers  and standing in class nude for a period of 30 minutes approx. This happened way back in 1970 when i was in school.
But it was a boys school and not a co-ed one.
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on Jan 6th, 2014, 12:48pm, ilovecfnm wrote:
I am an indian guy. I , too want to relate an incident when two boys were punished and shamed in school for some mischief by being stripped by female teachers  and standing in class nude for a period of 30 minutes approx. This happened way back in 1970 when i was in school.
But it was a boys school and not a co-ed one.

 
Welcome,
Looking forward to hearing your account.  
I like these stories of forced nudity in front of females, especially if they are true accounts.  
Not everybody's idea of CFNM, but a few like me do enjoy them. Smiley
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CFNM - Clothed Female Naked Male fetish video productions by CFNMzone.com. Three girlfriends have asked a couple of guys to hang out naked with them. The second video is a garden party where guys have been invited to have their equipment assessed. LINK TO SAMPLES

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DVD-2
Born to Lose & Caught Skinny-Dipping
60 minutes
$29.95
Somehow the guys always lose in strip poker and are at the mercy of the girls. Video 2: Three girls catch some guys swimming in their pool and won't give them back theri clothes until they can check out every square inch of their bodies. LINK TO SAMPLES

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DVD-4
Paula's Pecker Boys & Ariel's Dick Show
60 minutes
$29.95
A group of clothed girls hang around the pool while more and more naked pool boys come by for attention. Video 2: A garden party where a group of girls commands some naked guys to wank in various ways. LINK TO SAMPLES

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DVD-5
Shipwrecked & Rent-a-Cop
60 minutes
$29.95
Two girls find a shipwreked guy on the beach and soon make sure he is "feeling better". Video 2: A police officer arrives at a girls' party and shows them his arresting attributes. LINK TO SAMPLES

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DVD-9
Tickled and Tied & Bare Facts
55 minutes
$29.95
CFNM - Clothed Female Naked Male fetish video productions by CFNMzone. She tied him to her bed as he slept, then invited her girlfriends over. Video 2: Two athletes are surprised to find several female reporters in their locker room, looking for a scoop. LINK TO SAMPLES

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DVD-10
Academy for Girls & Personal Trainer
50 minutes
$29.95
CFNM - Clothed Female Naked Male fetish video productions by CFNMzone. The girls' sex class has brought in a live male specimen to be examined. Video 2: This personal trainer required him to work out nude so she can better assess his physical progress. LINK TO SAMPLES

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DVD-12
2006 CFNM Games & Strip or Consequences
50 minutes
$29.95
CFNM - Clothed Female Naked Male fetish video productions by CFNMzone. In the spirit of the fact that the original Olympics were done in the nude. Video 2: This lucky guy is the girls personal plaything. LINK TO SAMPLES

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DVD-13
St. Patricks Day Party & Paula's Pecker Boy Audition
50 minutes
$29.95
CFNM - Clothed Female Naked Male fetish video productions by CFNMzone. The boys wear green hats and nothing else. Video 2: The boys show the girls everything they've got. LINK TO SAMPLES

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DVD-15
Who's Fooling Who & Tied/Tickled II
68 minutes
$29.95
CFNM - Clothed Female Naked Male fetish video productions by CFNMzone. Art School confidential and a tickle fest. LINK TO SAMPLES

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DVD-16
My Nutty Boyfriend & Rich Girl Blues
42 minutes
$29.95
CFNM - Clothed Female Naked Male fetish video productions by CFNMzone. A surprise awakening for this guy, and rich girls get themselves some boy toys. LINK TO SAMPLES

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DVD-18
Training Day & Porn for Women
70 minutes
$29.95
CFNM - Clothed Female Naked Male fetish video productions by CFNMzone. Boys just need some training, that's all. And the girls get out their cameras! LINK TO SAMPLES

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DVD-19
The Gift & Happy Endings
70 minutes
$29.95
CFNM - Clothed Female Naked Male fetish video productions by CFNMzone. When you TAKE something is it still a gift? Why do pool cleaners always get all the fun? LINK TO SAMPLES

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Vrod-100's
The Naked Mile
(Public Nudity)
100 minutes
$29.95
The world's biggest expression of CFNM ever. 8 out of 10 runners were male college students and girls came out in droves to watch this spectacle! Shot with six cameras, with over 1000 runners, this footage has never been seen before. Tightly edited with non-stop action.
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