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MEN- Have you stripped on webcam?
« on: Jun 2nd, 2008, 10:43pm »
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Ok boys, wondering if any of you have ever stripped on cam for a lady who was also on cam but remained clothed either as part of teh deal or because she chickened out when it was her turn?
 
If yes, I'd like to know if you stripped off and then maintained a normal chat with her or was everything over once you were naked and maybe jacked off?  
 
I think it would be fun to chat with a guy on cam telling him to take an item of clothing off from time to time then at the end wank for me. Just wondering...
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Re: MEN- Have you stripped on webcam?
« Reply #1 on: Jun 3rd, 2008, 12:14am »
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OK, a recent story from my shameful past was that one time I had an ongoing chat relationship with a very lovely woman. During the course of this relationship the topic of CFNM was brought up and while she found the concept fascinating, she didn't believe it.
 
So it started as dares where she would challenge me to disrobe more and more over several chat sessions, never expecting me to get completely naked. After about a week of such teasing, she asked to see my backside and she was very surprised when my full moon rose on cam  Grin
 
So for the next week, she would ask to see the butt and I would show it, even when one of her friends was watching the cam with her. One day they finally insisted on having me disrobe and seeing my front. I guess they didn't expect me to go through with it because they were shocked and hysterical when they got what they asked for.
 
But only a few moments after they saw all, they shut off their cam and closed out mine and logged off. It was a couple weeks before I heard from her again, and she claimed that she didn't expect me to go that far with her friend present.  
 
So even though I chat with her on occasion, she doesn't ask to see anything there have been no CFNM cam sessions with her any more.  Undecided
 
Maybe this should be a cautionary tale?  Roll Eyes
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« Reply #2 on: Jun 3rd, 2008, 12:21am »
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I met a nice lady on secondlife who eventually asked me to do the webcam....
 
I went from thong to naked to online orgasm.  This tale didn't end there, but the point was - fun was had by all.
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« Reply #3 on: Jun 3rd, 2008, 1:11am »
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I've stripped on cam quite a few times. I was initially very shy and nervous about it as the first time was for a lady I had been chatting to for a few months, we flirted but no actual sex talk happened. One day I made a comment about how it was her birthday and if she would like a birtday webcam strip tease (this was to be my first time) she said sure, she gave me instructions as to when to take things off and what to do. She ended up getting me to masturbate to orgasm. We did this a few more times after that.  
 
One thing I haven't done yet which would be great fun, would be to chat with a woman and for her to tell me when to take things off during the course of the conversation as C_L suggested.  
 
I've only stripped a few times with women who have got cams & a few times on cam with the woman on the phone or mic, I prefer the woman telling me when to take things off and what I should do etc. especially when they don't have cam as it makes it more interactive as opposed to undressing to a screen.  
 
Cautionary tale: As I'm sure many of us know, men will sometimes pretend to be women on chat sites etc especially ones where men will offer to strip. If you've chatted online a while (not sexually just chatted) you will be able to pick up on fakes, the best bet is not to jump into anything to quickly if you are not sure the person you are talking to is a woman or a man. (unless of course you want a man, in which case whatever does it for you). I'm a member of a few yahoo CFNM groups and sadly lots of gay men will try and get on your messenger list as well.  
 
If the person you are talking to does not have a cam or shares pics that are "odd' as in they are naked pics of too perfect women or something doesn't feel right then it probably isn't. I know quite a few guys who have been sucked in by frauds.  
 
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Re: MEN- Have you stripped on webcam?
« Reply #4 on: Jun 3rd, 2008, 9:05am »
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Ah yes, the inscrutable female psyche.  
 
Sometimes I think you have to use "reverse psychology" and suggest to them (in a playful tone),  "No, you don't really want me to do that!"  If they protest a few times that they really do want you to show all, you can truly express dismay if they are suddenly offended or shocked because you gave them every opportunity to agree, "You're right, I don't."  
 
If it eliminates the possibility of stripping in front of a female who is not truly sold on the idea, so be it.
 
on Jun 3rd, 2008, 12:14am, gorgon wrote:
....  I heard from her again, and she claimed that she didn't expect me to go that far ....

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« Reply #5 on: Jun 3rd, 2008, 9:16am »
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Well, it's really recent for me.  I did it for the first time... two weeks ago.  I was chatting on Yahoo Messenger with a woman from my group when she began to ask if I can show me to her.  I was at first reluctant (I declined for about 30 minutes), but as she insisted a lot, I finally agree.  First, I showed my ass, legs and torso.  Then, both excited, she asked to see the remaining part... Once again, I was reluctant but I agreed too at least.  I show her my manhood.  As I was the only one with a webcam, I could not see her reactions, but I could read them.  She was pleased.
 
I did it one more time with her... yesterday night.  This time, she was with a friend and they both asked to see everything.  I chatted with them about an hour, while my cam was shooting me all naked for her.  It was a great sensation.  Wow!  I wish I could do it again in the future.
 
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« Reply #6 on: Jun 3rd, 2008, 10:43am »
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on Jun 3rd, 2008, 9:16am, lokheed wrote:
Well, it's really recent for me.  I did it for the first time... two weeks ago.  I was chatting on Yahoo Messenger with a woman from my group when she began to ask if I can show me to her.  I was at first reluctant (I declined for about 30 minutes), but as she insisted a lot, I finally agree.  First, I showed my ass, legs and torso.  Then, both excited, she asked to see the remaining part... Once again, I was reluctant but I agreed too at least.  I show her my manhood.  As I was the only one with a webcam, I could not see her reactions, but I could read them.  She was pleased.
 
I did it one more time with her... yesterday night.  This time, she was with a friend and they both asked to see everything.  I chatted with them about an hour, while my cam was shooting me all naked for her.  It was a great sensation.  Wow!  I wish I could do it again in the future.
 
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Are you sure that was a woman?  Also, think! If you can't see who can see you, then you have no clue as to who is watching! Could be underage! I would be careful with that. Shocked
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Re: MEN- Have you stripped on webcam?
« Reply #7 on: Jun 3rd, 2008, 11:08am »
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on Jun 3rd, 2008, 10:43am, malibug wrote:

 
Are you sure that was a woman?  Also, think! If you can't see who can see you, then you have no clue as to who is watching! Could be underage! I would be careful with that. Shocked

 
Since yesterday, I now had the confirmation she is a woman of 30 years old.  But you are wright, I should have checked before and I will do in the future.
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Re: MEN- Have you stripped on webcam?
« Reply #8 on: Jun 3rd, 2008, 11:38am »
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Grin Boy would there be a shock...
 
Do you want me ejected forcibly from these internet cafes  Grin
 
Clothed-Lady why the interest?
 
There are other options which could be safer.
 
 Roll Eyes Oh the bloke is coming over quick pants back on  Grin
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« Reply #9 on: Jun 3rd, 2008, 12:16pm »
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Had a chuckle at your fantasy about the webcamSmiley  Have been doing that for quite a while now on the webcam in ways that you outlined and then some.  I have several lady friends, for instance, from all parts of the globe, that have never yet seen me with anything on and have seen quite a bit at their own directionSmiley  One of these ladies wanted to see this, but then she had me strip off right in front of her on the cam.  Another lady likes to film me stripping and then getting off for her where I put the camera right up close so she can see everything as it happens.  
 
This same lady had a sister with cancer.  We talked long and hard about it in cyberspace.  I have been through it before with friends and relatives, including my mother who died of it a couple years ago, and she needed that understanding ear to vent to.  I was naked all the time we talked and she had full and open view.  She was dressed.  Sometimes we went beyond that with her behind the cam and me in front of it, but other times we just talked.  
 
Webcams are pretty wild.  You have to be careful, though, as you never know when the the show from the night before will turn up in a friend's or co-worker's e-mail box attached to a joke or something the next morning.  I never show the face because of this reason.  It happened once to a friend.  You also have to somehow discern whether the person on the other end is, in my case, really a lady.  That's happened a number of times before.  The gays and bi's out there really come after you.  
 
All-in-all, I've had much fun being on the webcam, doing the things you outlined and then someSmiley  Where else can you be in the nude for a lady's eyes  with both of you thousands of miles apart?  One of my ladyfriends is in Cyprus.  Right now, the only webcam chat program I have is yahoo messenger (same handle) because it is free, though it can be hell to deal with.  The other webcam programs want a monthly fee.  
 
Hope this helps.  
 
 
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Re: MEN- Have you stripped on webcam?
« Reply #10 on: Jun 3rd, 2008, 3:22pm »
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I have done it many times.  I won't do it unless they have a mic or cam so I know it is a real female.  I always let them do the directing but it usually ends up with me masturbating and cumming for them.  I prefer it in person but the webcam is fun when that is all there is.
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« Reply #11 on: Jun 3rd, 2008, 3:49pm »
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I've stripped on cam, but it was years ago.  I had a chat buddy, female, who lived up in the New England area, where she was an English Prof.  She was going through a divorce, and much of our chat had been about that.  We'd gotten close enough to chat over the phone as well.  
 
I was the only one of us with a webcam.  I don't remember how the subject came up, but I wound up spending a few hours with her asking to see me without clothes, and me *technically* following her directions, but somehow never quite showing a penis in the picture.  (When she started asking to see me without clothes, I was using the webcam as a still camera, and sending her .jpg's, which also had the effect of dragging this out a bit, as she had to wait for a file transfer each time she retyped her instruction.  She never quite came out and said "show me your penis", so I didn't.  
 
Finally, after doing this through an afternoon, I turned the webcam back to continuous operation, showing myself sitting in front of the computer, visible only from the elbows up, wearing a t-shirt.  At that point, having honestly forgotten I was in front of a live webcam without pants, I stood up to go refill my tea.  (While I'm no bear-like human, I was in a happy enough mood that most everything was visible from under the shirt at that time)  She had given up on seeing "the good stuff", and was floored that after all that, I would just turn on the cam and stand up in front of her.  Wink  (Yes, I am the sort of person who can forget things like that)
 
I had other female friends, one each in Iceland and Australia.  When I got a chance, I wound up sending the same .jpgs I'd taken for my first friend and sending to both of them.  While, in hindsight, that may have been a dangerous thing to do, it was fun, and apparently well received by all buddies.  Smiley
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on Jun 3rd, 2008, 11:38am, ccponyboy wrote:
Grin Boy would there be a shock...
 
Do you want me ejected forcibly from these internet cafes  Grin
 
Clothed-Lady why the interest?
 
There are other options which could be safer.
 
 Roll Eyes Oh the bloke is coming over quick pants back on  Grin

 
Thanks for all of your input, hopefully more stories will be posted.  
 
My interest is as CFNM is not exactly a common interest with Females (well not as an "official" thing anyway) I imagine at times you would meet women (or men if your female) who are on the opposite side of the planet or country and you would have to make do with what you have, this might be even more essential in a country like Australia where CFNM is barely heard of, let alone people being into it.  
 
There is also the novelty factor of the man being nude on webcam. All silly fun really.    
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« Reply #13 on: Jun 4th, 2008, 4:30pm »
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It really is fun. About a year ago, I met a woman online, a different state. We both had webcams and it was fun to just chat with her and be able to see her. I had told her that, as I live alone, I often just do nude around the house and she knew that I often chatted with her on the webcam while I was nude. She could only see me from the waist up anyway. Well, we had been chatting for a couple of weeks when she asked me if I would mind standing up so she could see. Of course, I was only too happy to and that began a phase of our relationship where she would tell me what she wanted me to do. the commands were relatively tame at first (turn around so she could see my butt) but soon she was asking me to jack off while she watched and I found the whole thing very exciting. She even had a friend of hers there on a couple of occasions to watch me.We lost touch eventually but I wouldn't mind doing this again.
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« Reply #14 on: Jun 5th, 2008, 10:25am »
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Since I can't do much here anymore but comment, due to my budget, I do like to say positive things. ( yeah---I know---sometimes I don't ).
 
So a big round of applause to clothed_lady for the thread. AND really good job on the anecdotes to the other er, um. . . members  Roll Eyes
 
BTW Australian women are really open minded & usually very attractive too.
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Twanger,
 
In the few times I've seen film of a woman from Australia speaking, I've been very infatuated by the accent.  Smiley  Pity I could never get there while single.
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« Reply #16 on: Jun 6th, 2008, 8:11am »
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Have worked with several Australians before and love the accent and their crazinessSmiley Two of the ladies that I routinely model for on the webcam are Australians -- one from Sydney and the other in the Melbourne area.    
 
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« Reply #17 on: Jun 6th, 2008, 3:34pm »
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Clothed Lady sound reason for wanting to look at us naked. PM and lets discuss interesting
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« Reply #18 on: Jun 6th, 2008, 8:13pm »
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Yes I've done it before and I'd happily do it again.  I never offer (don't want to scare people off) but I never decline either, unless there is someone else around (my end not theres).  
 
And if the lady wants to see me in action at the end of a strip great, if not then I won't force that on them either!
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« Reply #19 on: Jun 8th, 2008, 9:04am »
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Am actually rather surprised that the board here does not have a way to use webcams on here yet.  Yahoo messenger, though, lets you use them and yahoo (referred to as yahell for good reason) is free and the viewer also does not need a webcam to watch.  But they are fun.  I love them as do the ladyfriends that love to watch me on them.  The best thing about webcams is that it is not porn, but is all right there just as it happens.
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« Reply #20 on: Jun 8th, 2008, 10:33am »
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I"ve done that many times. In fact, most of my CFNM happenings have been via web-cam. I really like to find ladies who are new to chat or who at least arn't really hard core about it. I always chat for an hour or two before trying anything. Usually I'm on late so something that works well is to say "hey, it's pretty late here. We can keep chatting but do you mind if I get ready for bed?" 99% of the time they say "sure, go ahead". From then on it's pure CFNM and the ladies love it......and so do I.
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« Reply #21 on: Jun 8th, 2008, 12:18pm »
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yes, i have a few times. very erotic. the chatting usually leads to stripping and when i am fully naked i always feel the need to masterbate for the girl - which is always recieved very very well!
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« Reply #22 on: Jun 8th, 2008, 3:49pm »
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Like several others  here, I have done this many times.  I belong to a chat site that has rooms such as "Girls Watching Well Endowed Guys Cumming."  It couldn't be much more obvious than that.  
 
I spend times in that room or similar ones meeting up with ladies.  Sometimes we watch each other, but most of the time, it is a lady watching me.  The ladies will ask to see your hard cock, and finally to stroke and cum for them.  
 
I do agree with the other writers in  the need for caution because some men pretend to be women on those chat sights.  I have no interest in performoing for men, but certainly enjoy it for the ladies.  
 
A recent example is a woman from Michigan that I met on line a few weeks ago.  She tries to be prim and proper, but clearly has a horny streak and likes to watch men.  She has the chat sight on while working at a law firm.  Last friday, she took her lunch at her desk so that she could watch me perform for her.  Great fun for both of us.
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« Reply #23 on: Jun 9th, 2008, 1:51pm »
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LOL...where is that chatroom? Don't know if I fit the well-endowed, but sounds like a great placeSmiley LOL.  Yahoo messenger used to have rooms like that.  these were the private rooms and there was a section in here about Girls watching guys or something like that.   Met quite a few ladies in there with a zest for the xxxxx...lol.  Several times arranged to meet a certain lady on-line and she would have a gang of her friends there, watching, all on the webcam..lol...Sometimes would meet a lady and do a photo/film session for her through the webcam that got pretty erotic, with only me that was in the nudeSmiley  But yahell got rid of those chat rooms.  Still model for several of the ladies that I met in there, but the room is gone...damn, where is that chatroom..lol.  
 
Most chatrooms want a slice of your credit card per month.  There used to be a good one called cuseeme.  I had a few ladies in there that I would meet for some explicit fun.  Sometimes we used to all get together in a room -- everyone from thousands of miles away from each other -- and I would strip for their pleasure.  Usually the ladies would set it up..lol....but cuseeme got too expensive and now I think that they do not exist or if they do are so radically changed.  
 
If I had the time and the expertise I would love to start a cfnm chat room strictly for that.  It could be fun.  But I have neither the time now or the digital expertise to do it.  Oh, well.
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« Reply #24 on: Jun 9th, 2008, 9:34pm »
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The overall chat site is Paltalk.  There are all kinds of rooms, but the vast majority of people are in the adult rooms.  There is a great variety of rooms for most tastes.  
 
Met another women in there just today from Montreal.  She said that she goes on cam when she is at home but never takes her clothes off.  She watches the men and the adult movies.
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« Reply #25 on: Jun 10th, 2008, 3:34pm »
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For years I was webcamming and have had more experiences than I can remember in this regards.
 
I think CFNM webcamming can be divided into scenarios:
 
1. Webcam chat room -  
Typically men far outnumber *real* women, but, there are enough real women to keep the men coming (cumming?).   Aside from also seeing their cam and seeing they are female, I have had phone conversations with many of these women, gotten a barrage of photos of them in many scenarios, and have maintained friendship with a few for many years (yes, 100% female through and through).  Unfortunately, these women are in extremely high demand, and you must compete with 10 other guys to get their attention, many of whom simply keep flashing them aggressively until the female leaves the forum jaded and no longer interested.
 
2.  Webcamming with women you meet elsewhere -
I have met many women in dating lists or elsewhere on the Internet where it turned into flirtatious emails, then, an exchange of Yahoo information turning it into Internet chats.   A few years ago, I was much more buff, and would get them to chat with me on webcam.   Because I knew a lot about these women from their dating profiles and many photos, and, had often had phone calls with them, I was certain about their identities enough to know they were interesting and attractive females (for real).
 
I would often educate them on how they could create a Yahoo profile for free, then, how they could log on and see my webcam.  They often did not have a webcam, thus making it very one-sided.
 
My style, regardless of chat rooms or personal connections is never to try and trick or convince them to let them see me nude.  If I'm the one convincing them to allow me to do it, it loses all eroticism for me.  THEY have to be the ones to suggest it, as it makes it feel as though I'm doing something they are requesting I do so that the can see and enjoy it.  Unfortunately, this takes a lot more time and subtly builds over a long chat, or, through several chats.  
 
BUT, when you do it this way, the end result is by FAR better.  The female on the other end is NOT going to say "great - hope you enjoyed me letting you do that - take care, bye".  Instead, they are appreciative because THEY wanted YOU to do it, you complied, and they now like you and see you as at least an Internet friend that they are intimate with, and it opens all kinds of possibilities.   A number of these women I have met with in person and had a physical connection with as a result.
 
I much prefer having CFNM webcam chats under scenario 2 above because the females are more likely to be real women, I know something about them, they are not jaded and don't have a hundred dick flashers begging to expose themselves to the ladies.  SHE is asking ME to expose myself.
 
Process on how to get a "normal" girl to enjoy CFNM webcamming:
 
After sending a step-by-step email to a girl on how she could download Yahoo Messenger and we had had a number of chats, she'd ask for more photos of me.  I'd then tell her she could see me in real time because I had a webcam.  They were always interested, and I'd explain how.  Some would throw out a warning that I better not be naked, they didn't want to see that, etc., which was great because I knew from the get-go it was a no-go (although with some of these over time, they ended up taking it down that path anyway).
 
1. Camera on - I'd be in my black running sweat pants and a muscle shirt sitting in a lotus position on my chair.   They'd compliment me about my physique, looks, etc., and I'd be appreciative.  It was best when they'd initiate those comments as opposed to me fishing for them.  
 
2.  Big second step - shirt comes off.  I'd keep the conversation on what I looked like to them and saying things such as "I'm working out now on my chest/pecs".  They'd say something like "From what I can see, you don't need that".  I'd say "well, my shirt is on" to which they'd say anything from "Well, take it off and let me see" to "that's true, I could see better without it".   I'd then offer to take it off to let them see.  This was innocuous in that guys typically don't wear shirts a lot of the time.  Conversation keeps going for a moment about me physique.
 
3.  Sweat pants off.   After she was comfortable having a chat without my shirt, I'd wait until she commented again about my physique, often because I had subtly steered the conversation to a general chat about body types.    A compliment of my pecs, guns, etc., would then lead to "wow, that's great, I always felt my best attributes were my legs - I work on them the most".   The sweats were baggy and she'd usually say "well, I can't see those because of your sweats".   I'd say "well, not to be too forward, but I'll happily take them off an let you see if you want".   Because of the build up and way I presented it, not once did the girl say "I'd rather you not".  Instead, it was always, "sure, take them off...."
 
4.  The tidy whities come off.   This is the final threshold.   I'm sitting there in my chair, cam elevated so that she can see my entire body, and I'm in my white briefs.   She compliments me on my legs and I thank her.   But I would never then say "shall I take off my underwear?"  For me it was always a painfully long period of time of innuendos and subtle undertones as to where this was going.  Sometimes we'd sign off with me still in my briefs.  In those instances, we'd be back on the webcam the next night, she'd have thought about it and would comment it was great to see me that way, and I'd offer to get back to the briefs to which she'd reply "of course".
 
But regardless of how long, if you are in a chat with a girl and it evolves into your being only in your underwear, she is naturally curious as to what is under those briefs.   The longer you stall and flirt and no aggressively flash her, the stronger her curiosity grows.  Further, almost all girls that would be okay with chatting with you in your underwear will not object (when the time is right) to your taking them off.    
 
But this happens when the chat becomes much more erotic and sexual.  I never had to force that, females love to have sexual chats and with me in my underwear, it always went there.  Once it becomes overtly sexual, it is much easier to say something like "wow, you're so damned sexy!  see what you're doing to me?" and expose your pup tent to her.  And it invariably happens where she says "Hmmmm...that looks nice what you have under there".  Bam!  You say "I'm glad you approve, but you really can't tell a lot with these on".   She'd usually respond with "I wanna see...will you take them off for me?"  Alternatively, she'd say something that expressed curiosity about it, and you'd offer to show her.  The end result is the same.
 
5.  Masturbating for her.   Your sitting there now stark naked, your hard dick pointing straight up and balls all on full display for her to see.   She will rarely start to talk about her trip to Florida at that time, but instead you are engaged in a very sexual discussion.   All the guy needs to do is to say "You're are making me so damned hard...can you see that?"  and she'll say "Oh yes!"  She keeps upsflirtatious prick teasing until you say "You're so damned sexy - I can't stand this I'm so horny, do you mind if I touch myself as we talk?"  Two key points - always let her know it is HER being so damned sexy that makes you hot, not that you are flashing her that makes you hot.  Second, saying "do you mind if I touch myself as we talk" is a much more acceptable way of asking.  
 
The only time this did not work was once when I had met up with a mother and daughter (late teens to 20ish) in a webcam forum and even though the mother was perfectly fine with letting her daughter  
view me nude and my erect dick and balls on display, she told me not to masturbate in front of them.  We talked for a long while, even when precum was visible on the tip of my penis and dripping down my shaft, which they noticed, but the mother still refused to let her daughter see me jack off...go figure!  Roll Eyes
 
But aside from that, it always ended with the girl closely watching me jack off and cum.   After those climatic CFNM moments, the relationships always changed.  Our phone calls would usually be phone sex.  We'd talk about meeting in person, which happened many times, even once where I took a pretty young girl to a resort in Mexico that had a nude beach.
 
But at the very least, once we had past that climax, future video chats were much better, and much less foreplay.  It would be like our connecting on Yahoo IM, and I'd say "How are you doing tonight?" and she'd say "well, I could be better".  I'd say "Really, what's wrong?" and she'd say "YOU'RE NOT NAKED YET!  Wink"
 
And when the ladies did have webcams but didn't want to get nude, they would make an excuse that they could not get nude because kids were in the next room, a friend was about to drop by, husband or boyfriend doesn't approve but doesn't mind if they just watch, etc.   The hottest excuse was really no excuse other than "I could never do that!  I would never show", yet they were happy to have me stark naked in front of them while they watched me jack my dick off.
 
But the greatest webcam chats were always those girls that had never done it, were not in a webcam chatroom, but met me through some other means and I opened up that world to them.  They'd email me the next day saying "Last night you were AWESOME!" or some other type of extremely appreciative comment and recognition to a great thing I had opened up to the...now try getting THAT off a video cam chat room!
 
I have too many stories to tell as I was deep into it for a number of years.   But I recognized those times as some of the most erotic in my life and even as I sit here, my memory make me far more horny than looking at downloaded porn.  
 
And I am still in contact with some of these girls through emails and IMs after all these years.  Some have families now, or are married, but it all started with CFNM video chats.
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For years I was webcamming and have had more experiences than I can remember in this regards....
 

 
Hey Brad,
 
Great advice.  It reminds me of some of the best sales training I ever got in my career.  In essence, people love to "buy," but hate being "sold."
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Thanks again for all your comments, I haven't had much of a chance to be online for a week and expected to find this thread relegated to the back pages!
 
Yes Brad, it is better to let the woman decide if she wants the clothes to come off! I have been on webcam chat sites before where the men show off their dicks and nothing else it's not erotic or even titilating, not seeing anything other than dick and not knowing anything about the guy attached to it!
 
I've also tried watching guys on cam before (they weren't into CFNM as such so maybe that was the problem), I would tell them from the start that if they put their cam on they better be clothed, only to find they already had their dicks out and waving it! (Even if they knew nudity was OK before putting the cam on, I still want to see more than just dick, a strip of some sort also is much nicer than seeing cock straight away).  
 
I don't mind a man jokingly suggesting he strip for me on cam if we have been chatting a while and have a friendship, thats cool as long as he doesn't keep going on about it everytime we chat. Also never offer to masturbate or just start masturbating definitly wait for the woman to tell you to "touch it".  
 
Brad wrote,  
 
The hottest excuse was really no excuse other than "I could never do that!  I would never show", yet they were happy to have me stark naked in front of them while they watched me jack my dick off.
 
That is a hot excuse! The epitome of CFNM in a way, ladies wanting to see men do things they would never do themselves. I like the hypocrisy of it.    
 
 
It's all about control, suspense and fun for me. I want a show, not just a dick flash!  
 
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The first time I ever set up a web cam I was testing it with a lady friend from work. Once it was set up and we could see each other she started teasing me with her tits and daring me to do anything. At this point we had been friends for a while. I knew she was a swinger and she knew I didn't have any real inhabitions so without much goading, I slowly unziped my pants, lowered them and my underwear and played with myself while she teased me more. She never beared her tits, but due to the novilty of the situation, I got off without much problem.
 
It was a fun time, we talked about it later, but we never got together.
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clothed_lady -
 
Just wanted you to know we really appreciate your involvement on this board, your insights and reflections.  Thanks for the note you posted, it was right on (in my opinion).
 
One girl I knew would respond to guys she did not know that messaged her only showing their cocks with "So you are telling me you're just a little dick...yeah, that's obvious!"  Then she'd put them on her ignore list before they could message back such that they would know she's banned them.  Hopefully it sank into some of these guys' head, although with some both of their heads had about the same amount of gray matter.
 
Thanks for starting this thread, it's a great one!  Wink
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Loving this thread as well Clothed Lady! That "hot excuse" that Brad mentioned about the lady saying "I could never do that, I would never show" reminds me of a lady I stripped on cam for a few months ago.  
 
I had been chatting to her on and off for about a year, we got along ok but I wouldn't say we were friends as such because the chat would run dry pretty quickly. Anyway, she knew when we first met on a chat site that I was going to do some nude modeling for a womens art class, this seemed to pique her curiosity even though she came across as very mild (she was also married). Anyway, I jokingly offered to strip for her once, and she said "not right now but maybe one day" I didn't take it too seriously I felt that maybe she was hoping that I would forget about it and she would be off the hook. I didn't mention it again for about 6 or 7 months until one day feeling a bit playful I said "So am I ever going to get nude for you or what?" She came back with "I don't know are you?" So I responded that I could undress for her right now but I want her on cam too. She seemed a bit confused about that comment as she reminded me "Why, I'm not going to show anything!" I told her that, that was cool but its just more interesting if I get to watch her, watch me strip. I knew she was female so it wasn't about proving anything just the interaction.  
 
So she turned her cam on, and told me to start, it was the morning & I only had my robe on. So I undid it slowly and then dropped it. The cam was still on my face so I slowly pointed it downwards. She then asked to see my arse so I turned around for her and pointed the cam at it, she still hadn't seen my cock, so she then told me to turn around. I did slowly. I was hard by then, and I felt she was into it so I started to slowly play with myself. She didn't say stop or anything but as I was getting close to climax she suddenly asked to see some of my art class poses! I thought this pretty funny and wondered if she knew she was delaying my orgasm or it was merely an innocent coinicidence. So I posed in a few positions then she told me to start playing again until I came.  
 
Her attitude at the end was a combination of turned on, looking at me like I was cheap/a piece of meat!, and slightly appalled.  
 
I remember her saying something like "I would never do that ever" I think it challenged her moral code a bit and we never chatted again, I think she satisfied her curiosity and was done with me!
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That is one delightful thread. Just goes to show the depth and swetnees and delightful emabaressemnt in male nudity and intimacy observed by women. It is so different to the violence of starking exhibitionism.  
I had some experiences on being naked on cam, and having to "do that" under the eyes and demand of women and girls. It is more the teasing than the act. Those moment of tittillating flirting while you peel clothes off,, those tensions, those desire, that need to touch but not wanting to be offensive.. the request to do it, when it finally arrives,, or that sweet request, when you can stand it anymore,,that blabbing,, "do you mind if I touch myself pleasE" ..Those long flirting are needed to put a man in the position of that erotic need to expose and relieve yourself, and the embaressemnt of feeling so excited. That "I want and I don't want" the same feeling of teenage when you where gulping before decalring love to yuor crush. It is delightful to some women to see men embaressed,, enthralled and betrayed by their own arousal deidcated to them
women are delicious. I love them
Teasing is so emabressing adn sweet.
After the orgasm, maybe obtained after the self pleasing performed under her diretcion, for her pelasure not yuors, is being naked to chat, feeling the pleasure of orgasm and releasie subsiding to a sweet "bad boy" feeling, having already released, a little puppy under and understanding, sweet Woman..oh heaven. Something sweet and embaressing at the same time. Sugar and spice. J
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You know, there used to be a place that was active 4 or 5 years ago on the web. For the life of me I can't remember the name but it had free, public adult rooms that were a little different. Everyone had voice but there could only be one person on cam at a time. It was great because each of the guys in turn could take the cam and show off. There we're always a lot of females in the rooms and it was really a great situation for CFNM. It was wonderful to slowly strip off to the comments of sometimes several females who are all very much into it. It's long gone now but was great while it lasted.
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Was on the webcam for a ladyfriend last night, in fact.  She wanted it and had come on looking to see if I was around.  She made me strip and then do things that she likes to see and then let it all go right where she can see it.  Afterwards, we talked for a while with the cam still on me.  It was pretty wild.  Was out on the beach today and saw all these ladies around in the sun and thought of what had happened last night and wondered what they would do if they knewSmiley  Would they want me to do it for them?  Would they send me to jail for twenty-five yearsSmiley?  
 
 Sometimes the transition between web cam and real life is a bit shakeySmiley  
 
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I have heard of Paltalk.  Doesn't it charge a monthly fee, though?  
 
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on Jun 13th, 2008, 12:14am, poseforher wrote:
Was out on the beach today and saw all these ladies around in the sun and thought of what had happened last night and wondered what they would do if they knewSmiley  Would they want me to do it for them?  Would they send me to jail for twenty-five yearsSmiley?  
 
 Sometimes the transition between web cam and real life is a bit shakeySmiley  

 
I was once flying between LA and Oakland and sat next to an attractive woman in her mid 20s.   We chatted a while, mostly boring stuff.  The conversation eventually evolved into our respective lines of work, and given how she dressed, I assumed it was some conventional line of work.  She then told me she was a fetish model.  I didn't believe her at first, but she whipped out her business with her nude on it and tide up with ropes and a ball gag in her mouth, and, it identified her as being available for fetish shoots.
 
When we got to the airport, I learned my meetings in San Francisco were up the street from her photo shoot so I gave here a ride.   As she suggested, I did email her, but never heard from her again (she lived in Florida and was flying to SF for the shoot).
 
We never know what fetishes or yearnings people harbor deep down inside.   A prisoner incarcerated for manslaughter may be as "vanilla" and conservative as they come, yet the judge that put him there could be into wearing diapers while having over-sized women dressed as the gestapo chase him around throwing wet noodles at him while calling him a sissy boy as he soils himself.
 
Ya just don't know.
 
I can remember a number of times I webcammed in the middle of the afternoon on a weekday (I worked out of the house at the time).  I'd get young mothers who had husbands were at work and a child in the next room that decided webchatting with me and watching me nude while I stroked myself was more enjoyable than watching Oprah.
 
Ya just don't know.
 
But then, isn't that what makes it all the more exciting?
 
 
 
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LOL...I have had that same scenario with the bored housewives at home tired of soap operas and oprah going out into cyberspace to find a guy to either chat with or watchSmiley  Once, several years ago a divorcing lady that lived nearby got on and got turned on to cfnm, by asking me out of the blue cyberspace what it was.  I showed herSmiley  She loved it and watched diligently every time that she could, getting quite attuned to the idea and having me perform several of her fantasies as she watched.  The funniest thing is that I knew who she was and she saw me all the time at the convenience store where she workedSmiley  But I never showed the face; she was cool with that.  It ended when she went back with the hubby.  I miss her alot actually.  
 
I must confess I was surprised that a lady would just say to a stranger that she was a fetish model -- that is, unless she was looking for a job from you..lol.  A long time ago I did have a lady friend tell me that she had once been a pornography director.  I just laughed.  Sadly, she was in love with another guy at the time, a friend, but she was not happy.   I kept joking about auditions, but they never went beyond jokes, but here was this serious lady with a good sense of humor telling me about what she had directed..lol.  She could tell some great stories, thoughSmiley   But within a circle of friends it is often best to keep that stuff hidden.  I have not seen her in twenty years.  Oh, wellSmiley  
 
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Yes. Probably thousands of times, with hundreds of women. I use a videochat network called ISPQ. Properly and respectfully done, it started out as a blast several years ago, and remains one.
 
There are a few things you should realize. Random strippers/flashers bore women. Out of their gourds. DON'T DO THAT, it ruins it for the rest of us. Get to know them, treat them respectfully, act like you would on a date ... get them to like you as a person .. and you will (usually, often) get as much CFNM action as you would like.
 
 
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Clothed Lady - thanks for posting this question.  No, I have never stripped on a webcam.  But I  would like to!  I recently bought a new computer and it came with a cam.   I have figured out how to use the cam but not yet how to find the ladies who would like me to strip for them.  I have a Yahoo messenger account with cam use but it seems not easy to make it work.  Has anyone tried using Skype for cam stripping?
 
Brad - thanks for your long reply and thoughtful analysis of what to do and what not to do in a cam cfnm situation.  I will take your suggestions to heart.
 
I am not new to cfnm - I've been doing this a far back as I can remember.  But I am new to the use of computers to do it.  I have a lot to learn.  I have been lurking here for a while and I am learning quickly.  I love reading the stories and comments (especially from the women) and decided it is time to start contributing myself.  I have some stories that I think may interest you.
 
Clothed Lady - keep up the good work!  I am getting a little tingle (you know where!) just being able to finally "speak" to you directly.
 
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Hi clothed lady,
 
I enjoyed very much reading your thread asking whether men like to strip on cam. I really like cfnm-scenarios: one or several women asking me what to show.
 
I stripped several times on cam, BUT: In the chatrooms, you mostly get only flashers, bots, guys pretending to be females, and if you finally meet a girl who likes to see she usually wants to see it quickly and is reluctant to show herself on cam.
 
Now I don't need to see her face etc., but it is nice to be sure there is a real female, and the real fun is the teasing and playing around. Isn't it this what makes cfnm different from porn?
 
It is just a pity that there still is no real cfnm cam forum, at least to my knowledge. In any case, please contact me at baduncle2008 at yahoo messenger or baduncle2008@yahoo.com. I would be happy to take part in cfnm fun, and was up to now far less successful than Brad, probably because I can't spend so much time in the internet...
 
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WOW, you guys are too much! I really thought by now this thread would be way down the bottom somewhere. Nice to start a good conversation and have people continue it along even though I haven't been here much lately.  
 
Loved all your experinces especially the ones where you guys end up being degraded a little by women who would never dream of doing what you just did for them - Yes I love the unfairness of it all! & yes I realise none of you care or even see the unfairness of it as long as you get to show off your willies!
 
It is surprising that there is no CFNM chat site with web cam access. It would be a winner I'm sure, in fact I don't even think there is something similar like a SPH one or a Femdom one really.
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If I had time and the expertise would love to create a cfnm/webcam chat site.  
 
There was one, sort of, on yahell (yahoo) a long time ago.  They had these things called private user rooms, which have long since been disbanded, and one of them was called, conveniently, Guys Get off for Girls, or something like that, and here was a webcam chat room specifically for that.  Most of the ladies I still talk with/model for, including the lady I posed for a couple days ago,  I met in this room.  But now that it is gone, it's been slim pickings for that and every room is crowded with bots.  
 
Long go understood the unfairness of cfnm.  That is a special part of its eroticism and flavor, and one reason why I have enjoyed it for so long.  Years ago, met a lady photographer for real who wanted to take my picture.  She was shy about it, of course, had never done anything like it before.  At first, almost had to coach her..lol..tell her to make me take it off for her.. she asked if she should too...I said no, that's part of itSmiley  After a while I was not allowed in her apartment if I was not in the au natural...lol...
 
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I did this several years ago.  For a while I belonged to a group that used CUSeeME, a group videoconferencing software.  Many of the men, myself included, would get naked regularly, but only a very few of the women would do so, and then only occasionally.  I did many one-on-one sessions where I got naked but the woman did not.  Sometimes we would just chat, other times I would put on a little show for them ending with me masturbating for them.  The vast majority of the time, I was the only one who got naked.  I never met any of these women in real life.
 
The best, though, was with a woman, Ann, I knew before I started using a webcam.  Ann was just a friend of mine who I had known several years.  Our relationship had always been “just friends.”  I knew her during the time I used CUSeeMe, but never chatted with her on it, even though we lived several hours apart.  A couple of years later, I moved about an hour away from her for a new job.  The CUSeeMe group had fallen apart long before then, so I hadn’t done any video chatting in quite some time.  
 
Ann and I had started using Yahoo IM so we wouldn’t have to run up the phone bill, as well as watch TV and whatnot while we chatted.  After about a month, our conversations took a somewhat more sexual turn as neither of us were “getting much.”  We talked about sex, though we didn’t do cyber sex.   One very hot summer night she asked me what I was wearing.  I truthfully told her “nothing,” though it was due to the heat rather than trying to be sexy.  She laughed and said it must be quite a sight.  We chatted some more about nothing in particular and she asked me if I really was naked.  I took a big risk at that point and hit the button to let her view my cam.  She asked if I really meant it, if I was really sure about it and I told her yes.  She said she had to think a moment and we chatted for a couple more minutes.  Ann asked me again if I still wanted her to open my video and I told her it was her choice.  A second later I got the popup that she was opening my video.  I knew she could see everything since I had my monitor window open.  After a moment, she said, “Oh my, you are naked!”  I said, “I told you so.”  We went back to chatting and she invited me to view her video, so I opened it right away.  All I could see of her was her face.  I didn’t expect her to be naked, or if she was, showing anything, so it wasn’t a big deal.  We continued chatting for a while longer, said good night and went to bed.
 
A few days later, we chatted again.  This time, though, I opened my camera right away, as did she.  Like before, I was naked and all I could see of her was her face.  We chatted about whatever and there were a couple of times that I got up to get something to drink or eat, so she got a real good look.  She commented on how good I looked, but that was the closest we got to talking about sex.  Like the last session we just chatted, me on full display and her just showing her face.
 
The next session, though was different.  I opened my camera right away, but she didn’t view it, nor did she open hers.  After a little while, I asked her if she got the invite and she told me she did.  I asked why she didn’t open it and she told me she felt a bit guilty because she could see me but she wasn’t showing anything.  I told her it didn’t matter to me if she showed or not.  She was still reluctant and said it didn’t seem fair.  I said it wasn’t a matter of what’s fair, rather it’s a matter of what’s fun.  If it’s more fun for us with just me being naked, then that’s the way we would do it.  With that, she viewed my cam and opened hers.  We chatted for a while about all kinds of things.  She asked me again if I was still OK with her not showing.  I said as long as we’re both having fun with it then it was OK.  She said “well, I am having fun watching you.”  I told her I was having fun too.  We continued chatting and after a few minutes, I started “fiddling” with myself and got hard.  Ann commented that she could see that I was indeed having fun!  I kept fondling myself and as the conversation wore down, I went into full-scale jerking.  We stopped chatting while she watched me and I came in about a minute.  She said she loved the show, I said I enjoyed it too and we went to bed.
 
We had maybe three or four more sessions like that, then I suggested she come up on the weekend to go for a hike (we actually met in a hiking group).  She accepted and the next Saturday she came up.  We went for a long hike in a nearby forest and talked about everything except our chat sessions.  We stopped and picked up a pizza on our way back to my place.  When we got there, I took my dog for a walk while she showered and changed.  After I took my shower, I didn’t bother to dress and walked into the kitchen naked.  She looked a little surprised, but smiled all the same.  We reheated the pizza, ate, cleaned up then went to the living room to watch a movie.  We sat next to each other on the couch and she would look over at me every so often.  Like with our chat sessions, I started fondling myself and got hard.  When the movie was over, I finished myself off as she watched.  She smiled and said that was great, and I told her I enjoyed it too.  She went home after that.
 
We resumed our chat sessions as before and she came to visit a few more times, too.  I always got naked and she always stayed dressed.  After the second or third visit, she started fondling me every so often.  We both ended up finding significant others and decided it would be best if we went back to “normal chatting.”
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Re: MEN- Have you stripped on webcam?
« Reply #43 on: Jun 17th, 2008, 7:28pm »
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Was filmed this morning on the webcam by a lady that I have known for several years.  God, did she get what she wanted and then some...was on for a good while and every part of me from the neck down had a thorough going over....afterwards went downtown and saw a gang of lady artists hanging up their work.  Had to laugh to myself, watching them and thinking where I had been a couple hours before.  If they only knewSmiley
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« Reply #44 on: Jun 22nd, 2008, 10:19am »
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Clothed Lady,
 
For me, it was exactly such an experience that first made me aware of CFNM.  It happened years ago, but I remember it like it was yesterday.
 
Having discovered camchat, I soon ended up chatting with one woman frequently for a half hour or so in the morning before we each had to go to work.  Frequently this was right after getting up.  We were very casual and often she still had a nightie on and I just threw on a robe.  Her nightie often provided me very good shots of her cleavage, but rarely more.  On weekdays, I'd have to cut our chats short so I could shower and get to work on time.
 
After talking with her for quite some time, I eventually mentioned to her that I had been to a few nude beaches.   She inquired as to what they were like and also learned that I usually slept nude.
 
One day when I announced I had to run to the shower and get to work, she simply asked to let her watch me drop my robe.    At fist I couldn't believe she would make such a request, but the she said: "You've let people see you on a nude beach, why not me?".   So I dropped the robe and let her see me.  That soon became the ordinary ending to our morning conversations.   Later she asked why I even bothered to put on a robe before talking to her since she knew I slept nude and had seen me nude anyways.    After that, I was always nude in front of her on cam, but she'd only see my privates when I sat down or stood up.   She'd tantalize me with her cleavage, but I'd rarely see more than that.
 
One day, she began talking very sensually and sexually to me.   After a while, she asked if the talk had made me hard and I confessed it had.   She asked to see.    After complying she asked to see me stroke it just a bit.   It wasn't long before I was masturbating for her on a fairly regular basis, but still not every time.   Although we never discussed it, it was clear this was up to her and her mood each day.   Eventually her schedule changed and we ended up drifting out of contact.    However, the experience raised my curiosity as to what was out there and I soon discovered the yahoo user rooms that existed at the time.
 
A couple years later, I had my first ongoing CFNM experiences, though I had not yet heard of CFNM.   It was clear to me that the woman really enjoyed the sense of power, safety and control she had in those situations and that eventually made me curious to learn more and led me to this site.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Re: MEN- Have you stripped on webcam?
« Reply #45 on: Jun 22nd, 2008, 1:11pm »
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on Jun 22nd, 2008, 10:19am, davew wrote:
Clothed Lady,
 
For me, it was exactly such an experience that first made me aware of CFNM.  It happened years ago, but I remember it like it was yesterday ...
 

 
Hey davew, thanks for sharing your experience.  I think it most assuredly defines CFNM as our community enjoys it most.
 
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« Reply #46 on: Jun 23rd, 2008, 2:08pm »
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Have been there before.  I have been into cfnm long before there ever was such a word -- posing and being out in the open for women on camera and for drawings -- and when webcams came along several years ago, decided to give them a try.   Webcams are crazy, a global cfnm connected via cyberspace.  Being born in the age of the manual typewriter, I still marvel at them.  I have several female friends on webcam, scattered all over the globe, that have never seen me with anything on.  Or if there is, it is quickly off per their wish.  They come on looking for me, knowing that they will get a good view without being threatened or hit on or anything like that.   One lady several years ago even had a private room for women only. I was the only guy allowed in and had to be au natural at all times for their pleasureSmiley  What fun we hadSmiley One even sometimes brings her girlfriends over to watch.  
 
Another lady likes to film it through the webcam.  I took a shower for her to film this way, in a hotel room, where I could stretch the camera cord far enough for her to see.  While she no doubt loves the dominance and control, and the non-threatening aspect, she also has told me how she loves how a guy would actually make love to the camera for her without trying to seem macho or demand it in return and that I am naked for her without questionSmiley  We last saw each other a couple days ago.  Sadly, as is usual in the webcam world, we live hundreds of miles apart, so whether we will meet in real time is an open question, but we'll probably keep going along.  
 
Another turn on for the webcam is that it is not really porn.  It is, of course, but the guy is not getting paid big bucks to do this or that.  It happens right in front of her, naturally, from across the computer screen.   That is the crazy thing about webcamsSmiley  
 
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Re: MEN- Have you stripped on webcam?
« Reply #47 on: Jun 26th, 2008, 9:46am »
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Bumping this post up as it really has me intruged. How many sites have women doing all the work. Too many and like the guy flashers, it can be really boring. The  idea of being TOLD what to wear, do and how and when would be fun. There's not just web cam. Video calls are available anywhere. What with small internet capable palmtops and phones this is going to explode...(sorry about the pun) for women to see before they buy, or some such thing.
Perhaps it will make guys care about their bodies and personal hygiene more. In the UK CCTV is eveerywhere, who knows who is watching. She maybe tracking your crotch right now  Grin  
 
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« Reply #48 on: Jun 29th, 2008, 10:46pm »
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This seems to be a very popular thread and as Clothed Lady pointed out because CFNM isn't very common sometimes webcam is the best you might hope for at times especially when the ladies are overseas. It's also ones of those threads that newbies can add to as well as people who have been members here a while as they have new experinces and ideas.  
 
Given that I'd like to suggest this thread being "stickied" I think thats the term, to the top area of the forum so we don't lose one of the most interesting threads to the back pages.
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Re: MEN- Have you stripped on webcam?
« Reply #49 on: Jul 7th, 2008, 2:03pm »
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Good idea.  Let's also figure out how to start a webcam room in here..lol...Now that would be really fun.
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